|
iv been going bak and forth between these 2 guys((dating them)) and i luv them both equally and im jst as happy w/ 1 as i am w/ the other..and going bak nd forth like this...its hurting us all..i jst cant do that anymore..im w/ 1 of them now..but i still rele like the other..i dont kno wat 2 do w/ out hurting them..nd myself..wat should i do?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You have to choose one or neither...just think who you could see yourself with for a long period of time. And who makes you happier, or how bout who your parents like or your friends get along with because alota of times when your friends don't like your boyfriend then their usually right and things end bad. Hope it helps.
]
Well you should think who makes me happier,who has always been truthful, and keep thinking of questions. then decied and be sure to tell the other that if this doesnt work that you would like to have a chance with them later. hope ive helped- =]
]
We know you have three other answers other than this one, but we are going to go ahead and give you some other ideas just incase someone else has not suggested them. We have a friend that was torn badly between two guys and she sat down and made good & bad list. Divide a piece of paper in half and write "Good" in one column and "Bad" in the other column and list all the good and bad things you can think of for one of the guys you like. Then, get another sheet of paper and do the same thing for the other guy. Our friend did this and then she sat by herself for awhile to think about it even more. Finally, she was able to make a decision. Of course someone is going to get hurt, but it is your life and you deserve to be with whoever makes you the happiest. Even if they both make you happy, there has to be one that is just a little bit better than the other one. When our friend decided on which guy she wanted to be with, she stopped talking to the other one. I know that sounds awful, but it is very neccessary because if you continue talking to the one you do not choose then you might end up getting confused, staying confused, cheating, or anything along those lines. If you totally cut off connection with the one you do not choose then you will not be tempted to start liking him again. Also, get your friends input on which guy they think you should be with. No one knows you better than your friends. We hoped we helped. =) goodluck
]
okay well you obviously dont like one of them enough to choose them over the other, so i dont think its worth it. If you cant easilt choose one over the other than neither one of them are specail enough to be for you. Plus, your only causing confusion and hurting people. So just dont go out with either of them.
♥ ami ♥
]
you could write pros and cons about both of them.or you could see who likes you more.....like a test.or you could leave both of them and see who you missed more or who missed you more.surry thats all i can tell you right now!!!
]
If you're ok w/ having an open relationship, and so are both of them, you could date them both. If they are into it (and you are), you could all 3 get together.
Now, if you want to only date one... you need to not date either for a while, and tell them that you aren't going to date either until you've made up your mind. Going back and forth, as you've stated, hurts everybody involved, and you can't choose, so neither it has to either be neither or both. If both isn't an option, neither is all that's left.
]
More Questions: |