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should i have told him!!!!
ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing???
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No matter what anyone says, you did the right thing. You knew this shouldn't have been a secret, and you told. Now, when boyfriends hear about their girls liking someone else, its just plain upsetting news, so, you can't be upset for him feeling angry, confused, and sad. These are perfectly normal feelings. The problem with him is, he was really hurt, and maybe you should try apologizing EVEN though he may have called you those names, [immature and sex hungry] because maybe that was an expression of anger, and he might have not ment it. Try saying, "Listen, I understand that you're upset, but would you have rather of had myself keep this a secret, or to let you know, and find out the wrong way?" And tell him you're sorry that hes upset at least, you don't have to apologize for your feelings which can't be controlled. But, maybe you could give him comfort, but yes, you did the right thing, no mistake at all.
-TheTeenGirl
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you did the right thing.No sense lying about your feelings.He will get over it.
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it was definitly right for you to tell him
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Tell him that you love him so much that you wanted to be totaly honest with him. No its wasnt stupid, it was the right, mature thing. xO ali
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Hes immature. You should slap him.
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you did a good think telling him and his the inmatuer one here! but u really did do the right thing and if you wouldnt have told him he would have maybe found out by himself and thats never good! good luck! hope everything works out!=) x0x
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hey
i think your ex boyfriend is being wat yo call "imature".you did do the right thing by telling him its not a good thing to keep secrets in relationships.he probably just has really strong feelings for you and doesnt know how to show it.but now you have to decide whether the guy you were talking to or your ex boyfriend is more important to you.
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okay you were definately right in telling him. it was really sweet of you to consider his feelings. i know it might hurt that you broke up, but its really good you said somthing. he is definately being immature here. dont let him pressure you into having sex with him if you dont want to. he is being immature, but so are you. dont fight over something so stupid about who is being immature. work it out together and i hope everything goes alright.
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i think that he is being the immature one. you are doing the right thing. and yes it was right to tell him. i just think he said that stuff like you are immature because he jealous because you like someone else now.
-Kittie-
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dont worry you did the rite thing. he's being immature and you should have told him. but may be things will get better soon. i hope i helped!
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