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ok so ive been on and off with my boyfreind for a year and a half now, and he just asked me back out a few days ago...but i still have other guys i like from wen we werent going out. And some of my old boyfreinds are coming back into my life now..not sure y..i mean i love my boyfreind right now, but i dont get to see him all the time, and i am a reallllllly bad flirt. I dont want to cheat on him, but i dont wanna turn down all these other guys...im too nice to do that. I really wanna be with my boyfreind but i feel like i'll b with him for the rest of my life, so i kinda want time away from him for now...i odnt mean to sound like a slut, cuz it wouldnt be like that, i just want to be able to hang out with other guys, but my boyfreind doesnt like that and gets really jealous, wat should i do?
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you are not a slut in any way. its your boyfriends fault for being jealous. sit him down and tell him that you can have friends and he cant stop you. if he doesnt like that then thats too bad. i know you love him but you also do want some time apart. if he really loves you he'll hide his jealousy and you will be able to have all the guy friends that you want. good luck!
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You are definitely <b>not</b> a slut. I think that you should take this time away from your boyfriend to see what is out there. You don't want to get in a committed relationship with him, possibly ending up in marriage, and then always be left wondering and maybe even cheating on him. Your intentions here is not to sleep with anyone, but to be free, and there is nothing wrong with that. By you saying that you and him have been on-and-off for a year and a half goes to show that there is something in you guy's relationship that is missing. It looks as if you are not ready to settle down, and you shouldn't have to. There is nothing wrong with dating people. This is how you find out what you want and do not want out of a relationship. Explain to your ex that you need time alone to grow and experience things on your own without him having jealous and negative thoughts about you. Like the saying goes: <b><i>'If it was meant to be, you can let it go and it will come back to you.'</b></i>
Good luck.
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If your boyfriend gets jealous when you talk/hang out w/ guys maybe its time to let go of him.The reason he gets fealous is because he doesn't trust you.You need a boyfriend that trusts you.Hope that helps you!Goodluck
-Shayna-
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