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Can u help me
Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean.
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well its because people are jerks and they make fun of you because they have there own problems of themselves.. dont really mind it.. because im a little overweight.. and it doesnt really bother me at all.. because i have many talents and a lot of people like me for who i am.. not for what i look like.. but if you have anymore problems.. then talk to me about it.. ill be glad to help you
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They have insecurities about themselves, so to make themselves feel better, and look better in front of others, they make fun of other peoples faults. Don't let them get to you, they are just insecure with themselves, it's not your problem. Hope I helped! And Remember- What goes around comes around.*
*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*
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sometimes people are mean because it makes them feel better about themselves. They also might be insecure and again it probably makes them feel good about themselves. If you want them to stop you could just go up to the kids making fun of you and be like, "Hey why are you always so mean to me. I never did anything to you." It might surprise them when you do that and maybe they will stop.
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Sometimes, people are just that way..It's our human nature...we find reasons to make fun of others to hide our own faults...it's pretty sad how we are these days.
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Kid's are mean just because they are kids.Unless they have ever really had their feelings hurt about something like that they don't understand.
With luck they will outgrow it.Until then work on it and ignore as best you can:}
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just tell them to shut the hell up ... there just jealous or there just plane out rude ... i would tell them to F off ... dang thats rude of them to make fun of someone !!! well hope that works !!
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kids always set themselves apart from other people. Some people are different in the way they are shaped because everyone's metabolism is different (how easily you digest and dissolve your food into your system). The slower your metabolism the harder it is to lose weight for someone because the fats have more exposure to your system and can't be dissolved as easily. You are you, and kids are cruel.. I'm suspecting your in middle school? well these are the worst years I'd have to say if you are different from the rest and different people.. people are so superificial and aren't mature enough to realize that the world would be boring if we were all the same.. *shrugsigh*
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A lot of times kids like that want to make fun of other people's problems because, in turn, they probably get made fun of because of other problems they have themselves. Of course, they don't realize that what they're doing is hurting the other person just as much as it hurts them. Just take it like it is and move on, I wouldn't set them as an example to pattern my life after and leave it at that.
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well plenty of kids make fun of other kids...chances are its cuz they think their better than you..just live your life and let them think that you care about wut they say. Who cares about there oppinion if you are aware that you're over weight and you are trying to fix it its one hell of alot better than being overweight and pigging out all the time.
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People say I'm fat too. And I think there right. Don't pay any attention to them, because your true friends will always stick up for you.
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hi
i totally understand how you feel i went anorexic for a while because of kids saying that kind of stuff to me. but going anorexic is the wrong thing to do im recovered and know i try not to take things so seriously if people make fun of me because of my weight i either blow it off or laugh at my self because looks are taken way to seriously in these days.if god wanted us to look any differeent then we do he would have done it himself.now try not to take things so seriously, i know it might be hard but just be out going and fun and dont let them bother you so much.
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kids are jerks. i should know i am one. you need to learn to ignore them because one day, your gonna be like famous and your gonna be a hot mama (or papa) and their gonna be like, i wish i wouldve been BFFS with that girl! those kids obviously have nothing else to talk about., so they resort to making fun of y ou which is soooo rude. good luck and be happy and dont worry about it. if you want, try taebo like holly did or buns of steel like i did. its so much fun and it helps you have steel buns and tight buns. BYE!!!! im sorry those jerks are sooooo rude.
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Kids are mean. Cliques in school are terrible. People who make fun of others do it to make themselves feel better. Jus don't let it get to you, and try to think of yourself as better than them.
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well i think that most kids are jealous of other people thats why they make fun of them. maybe not about your wieght but maybe you have really nice hair or a really cool boyfriend. or it could be you are really pretty and you have a great personallity. wat ever the reason i think they are jealous of you. when they make fun of you just laugh and say ya i know or i like the way i am so get lost. after a while they will get tired of making fun of you and go to someone else that will cry if they get called names not someone who doesnt care.
tell me wat you think of my advice please. i like to know how everyone thinks of my advice.
so wright back if you can.
-Kittie-
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People are just like that!!! but just screw them and 4get about them and just care about YOUR friends and wat YOUR friends think of you!
HOpe i helped!
MaNdY!
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Awww honey, if Granny was there, she'd give you a hug.
Want a Cookie?
_Granny
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anonymous -
The reason that they're mean is because you being overweight makes them feel skinny and good about themselves. For an added boost they make fun of you.
There really isn't any way to stop making them taunt you unless you either lose weight, or befriend them and come in good terms with them. Even then I don't think you'd want people like that for friends.
Just try and shrug it off. They're pathetic losers with nothing better to do but make fun of people for their insecure ego.
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If people make fun of you, just because of your weight, then that's lame and you just need to ignore these people because it's pretty dumb to talk about someone like that. These people have no lives and that's why they are wasting your time when they are talking about you. Just tell these people to knock it off and to stop talking about you, just because of your weight, because what goes around, comes around.
-Karen
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Well, I'm sorry to break the news, but kids are just that way. Just ignore them, because when there older, half of them will probably be overweight anyway. If your worried about how much you weigh, try to watch what you eat. Here's a weight loss program that might help: Try and drink 4 bottles of water a day, one every five hours. Maybe one during breakfast, one during lunch, one during dinner, and one before you go to bed. Bring a small snack with you to eat during the day, like a healthy mix or something. If your eating lunch during school, try not to pack anything unhealthy like cookies. If you buy lunch, just buy a sandwitch or something. Try to surf on the web for any other weight-loss programs. Good-luck!
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Its nature. You're the pariah in their eyes. Dont worry it fades away as you get older, and they mature.
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