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in 14 hes 18
Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!!
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Dont go out with him. He may be "sooo hot" but there is a huge age gap there which will cause many problems, such as having nothing to do or talk about. Also, its illegal and he can land in jail. Do you really want that to happen to him?
Anyway, he rides the bus. Who wants to date a guy without a car?
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Hmm, that is a big age difference. I...don't think you should go out with...straight away. 18 yr. old's think alot different than 14 yr. olds do, they want to do more stuff. You know? Just try to get to know this guy first, then move on from there. I might be able to work between yall, because most couples are a couple of years apart, I know one couple that's 12 years apart. Just follow your heart! Good-luck!
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get to know him so more then go from there. if you decide to eventually go out with him it would prolly be best if you had parents permission. age isnt everything either!! good luck!
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age aint nothin but a number girl.. go for it!!! ;-)
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My advice to you is to try being friends with him. You won't know if you like him as a person if you never talk to him. As for a relationship, you should definatly wait until you're a few years older. The things that concern an 18 year old and the things that concern a 14 year old are totally different. I don't mean in a sexual way, I mean that an 18 year old is thinking about future careers and where to go after high school. The gap between levals of maturity is way too great at this point, at least from what you've said. Not to mention the fact that you could get this guy in A LOT of trouble with the law. Dating an underage girl is probably not something he wants to get in trouble for at this point, especailly since he doesn't even know you.
Take it from someone who's been there before... Wait a few years before you pursue a relationship. As for being just friends, there's nothing wrong with that at all.
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hey,
well if i were you i would get to know him, but be careful he might just want sex, so when you are with him try to be in public places,and always have yourfriends there.
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Too much of an age difference, and it's also a matter of maturity. He's probably a lot more mature than you are (not calling you stupid by any stretch of the imagination, just as far as all that stuff). Besides, you're going on the fact that he's very attractive. Is it worth it going after people just because they're attractive? Not really, considering he could be the biggest jerk on earth, but you don't know that. Pick the person you want to spend your time with wisely - A good friend is always a good choice, or at least someone you know that sets good standards. You can get to know him if you want to, he's bound to blow you off because of your age, but being friends with someone who's a lot older is cool, I just wouldn't hold my breath for a relationship.
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Age is a NUMBER. To me.. it means absolutely nothing.. except in a lot of states.. its against the law for someone over the age of 18 to even be dating someone underage.. so be careful about that.. but i say go for it.. you never know till ya try!
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I think you could definetly get to know him better! But personally, I don't think you should date him. Maybe wait until you're 18 and then it won't be that big of a difference. I know age ain't nothin' but a number, but it just sounds so wrong to me. But I think you two could definetly be friends!
♥ Always,
Maria
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if hes nice and if hes really cute sweet has a big heart a good person i think you should!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well, if he thinks you're hot, that's a good thing because it means that he has been noticing you lately. You should definitely talk to time and get to know him. The age difference between you is only 4 years, which isn't bad, but grade wise, there is a possibility of you two going out but like you said, I doubt it.
-Karen
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