well i'm in the 8th grade and 14 years old.. this is my 2nd year at the school i am now and ive met alottt of friends, boy and girl, there is this boy is my homeroom and study hall and his name is ryan.. we've been good friends since 7th grade and we even dated for a little while during the summer.. lately i think that i started to have feelings for him and hes been giving me alot of attention.. hes always giving me hugs, writes me notes, and for example today he like rushed to get the seat behind me in study hall and he was like giving me massages and playing with my hair and taking pictures of me on his camera phone.. i really dont know if he was flirting with me or was just being friendly.. but then i was going through his cell phone today and saw text messages from this other girl that says like i love you and stuff.. i know that hes not with her cuz this other girl has a boyfriend.. but im just really confused right now.. can someone give me some advice on this situation?
brittany_x31 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 10:46 pm: I think you should flirt with the guy a LOT. That will make the other girl jealous. (if she sees you). If she has a boyfriend, then why would she like HIM? Usually and normally, when a girl likes another guy and she already has a boyfriend, she would have broken up with him but I think she might be cheating on her boyfriend or trying to anyway. If the guy doesn't like HER, than she's out of the picture! LOL. If Ryan doesn't like her, then, you really don't have anything to worry about because he won't go out with her if he doesn't really and truly "love" her like she "loves" him. If yall went out, and yall both like each other still (supposedly he likes you) then flirt with him and see if he firts back. If he does, there's love in the air!
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