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this boy
ok there is this boy at skool he really likes me but I dont like him aand he gives me alot of nice things but I dont like him and I dont want to tell him so what should I do and should I give him back his things or keep them???? Please help QUICKLY
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you shouldn't just give him back the things he gave you just because you don't like him. you need to tell him that you only like him as a frined, but tell him really nicely so that he doesn't take it the wrong way and get mad at you. you can offer to give back the stuff he gave you, but say it nicely.
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Altight well you dont wanna lead him on so you need to really tell him. offer to give back his things and tell him that you dont really want a boyfriend right now but that you really wanna keep him as a friend.
bascially u need to talk to him
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Well if i were u i would give back his things and say that u dont like him but try not to hurt his feelings.
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just tell him you really cant avoid this
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Tell him you dont like him that way and only want to be friends with him and ask if he'd like those things back
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If you don't like him then you really shouldn't accept his gifts. He is probably taking that to mean you like him.
If he continues to bother you then you will have to tell him you only like him as a friend or something. Especially since you have taken gifts and sort of given him the wrong idea. I know you don't want to but you may have to.
He seems to be nice to you and everything, what is it you don't like about him? Maybe you should give him a chance and see what he is like? Just asking :)
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I had the same problem. I didn't like this kid at all! He would always say he'd bring me back stuff from vacation and stuff, but I'd always say no don't! Because I didn't want to lead him on. Just tell him that you just want to be friends and that you can accept his gifts. Just tell him nicely he'll understand.
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just talk to him in private. sit him down or w/e, and just be like: "ok, i really don't want to hurt your feelings or anything, but i don't like you like that. your a sweet guy for giving me all of the gifts, like the _____ and the _____...and i feel bad that your being so nice by giving me all of it and i don't even like you back. i don't know if you might want them back, or what..."
something like that should work. you really don't want to be mean or too harsh because then he would feel embarrassed or stupid.
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I would just say "Name, I think that you are really nice but I can't really see it working between us." Be really nice and then ask him if he would like his things back.
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step 1. learn to spell
step 2. quit being such a selfish whore
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always keep things for memories. just write him a little note, tell him you like him as a friend but no more and you just wanna hang out as friends and that you feel bad for him giving you stuff.
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heyy .. first of all you need to tell him yourself in person that you dont like him because if you dont he might think that you really do and dont ask one of your friends to do it because he might not beliveve them you need to do it and for the things he gave you you need to give them back because if you dont then he will think that your relationship is more then a friendship
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