in our group there is a bout ten of us. i have got close to one of them and 5 or 6 pple in the grouop are saying that ive changed and one of them have gone really bitchy and twisting everthing up. she is really jealous and is makin the rest of them go against me. the person i have got close has fallen out the group so now im stuck between the girl im close to and the group.im realy dont know what to do.anyone been in this situation?
Dear Torn.
"friends come and go But best friends stay forever. the way I see it, is you have 2 choices: you could continue hanging, with people who aren’t really there for you. or someone who’s come to be a best friend.(or could)
What happens if this group decides to "dumb" you like the other girl? its not worth it. you don’t need FAKE friends you can do better. I also think that this girl that's fallen out, of the groups favor might need someone to talk to. Think how she feels? im not going to force you to do anything. It’s a matter of what kind of person you want to be. You can be that popular girl in the group, always worrying if your so called friends like you. or someone who has a real best friend. someone who'll always be there for you.
-Bmf
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Hey omg i absolutly love your advice column...ok well i really need some help, how do u make a guy want to kiss you?(im pretty positive that he wants to but im not sure)! please help me!
Ha alright,
so you know he likes you that’s good, Unfortunately I cant make him kiss you (I wish!) but I have some ideas! first your going to have to hang out with him. If your with a group of friends have a someone dare you two to kiss...
BUT if your not Into that I suggest that you just kiss him. possibly hang out together(like go to the movies or hang at someone’s house) and then, when the moments right(which you’ll now) kiss him! Think of it this way: You can spend your whole like waiting for something to happen, or you can make it happen now.
Good luck
-Bmf
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Hi im 13 and i need help. I feel bad every time my techer says get into groups or get into parners. no one will ever be paners with me. I have alot of friends but none of them are in my group. i Have one friend in my group but she always volenteers to work alone.(we have an odd numder of kids)I end up being patners with geeks or freaks or babys. basily kids i dont want to be parners with.
Note: please dont say be yourself (i am/was.)
F/13
From:Dork girl
Dear Dork girl,
i understand what your going through. in 8th grade i never had a science partner. i had a alot of friends tho i was just the odd one out.
C my friends never knew i disliked being partners with.. yea no the weird kids. so one day i was very angery bc i couldnt take it anymore and i told someone about it 'Chris' anyway chris went behind my back and yelled at alll my friends for "ditching" me. I was sorta embarassed about all of that. personaly you dont want that to happen you need to talk to your friends about feeling left out (they'll understand dont worry) because you dont want someone else doing it for u
good luck
-Bmf
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Hi my name is jess i like this kid named Egore and i think he likes me to but the onl problem is that hes black i dont mean to sound mean but my dad says i cant date black people i mean i really like him but i dont want to disrespect him ehat shoul i do.
hey well i was reading your question and at first i wasnt goona comment but some ppl gave you messsed UP advise!
NUMBER one SKIN color doesnt change the person you are. and if ur father is against that, then you should stand up to him. If you really liek this boy then go for it.
ur father has racial problems and he needs to GROW UP! wake up and get a clue. the Civl war is over EVERONE IS EQUAL and whoever "cheyenne" is. sayin that opposet sex/opposite color is aginst the bible is A dumbass soory but god made BOTH black and white. Humans were the ones that made opposite color and and opposite sex bad. sides maybe its time to QUESTION the authority of the bible
ps. you DONT wanna be friends with benifets bc were does that get u? no where. i think you need to follow your heart and if your Father cant handle this then maybe is time to Question his authority.
just tryin to help and im sorry if i offened anyone -Bmf
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ok well my friend went with guy ill call a and well they didnt work out b/c she didnt feel the attraction but the problem is i think im starting to really like him but not only does he know my brothers but he also went out with one of my friends and i dont know if he likes me help
Honestly i think you should just take the plunge and tell him because chances are hes been feelin the same way about you. dont worry about him begin your friends Ex bc liek you said she didnt feel teh attraction and shed understand. i mean she your friend she'll prolly be happy for u GOOD LUCK
-Bmf
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ok there is this boy at skool he really likes me but I dont like him aand he gives me alot of nice things but I dont like him and I dont want to tell him so what should I do and should I give him back his things or keep them???? Please help QUICKLY
Altight well you dont wanna lead him on so you need to really tell him. offer to give back his things and tell him that you dont really want a boyfriend right now but that you really wanna keep him as a friend.
bascially u need to talk to him
-Bmf
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Hey if you get head. will ur dick stay the same size for the rest of your life? I rate 5's
um personaly ive never given head but and this is a guess but i pretty sure you receiveing it wont have any affect of the size of your dick
-bmf
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How do i get the guy i want. i just want to get to know him better. basically how do i get into a relationship to the point that he can actually say hi to me? Thanks in advance!
~Linda
ha i can answer this! alright first you should find out things he likes to do.. like his favorite cd. (ect) once you've got that its time to make your move. my personally favorite move it the "accidently bump into him" yea i no lame but it works maybe even drop a few things (perhapes a cd/book.. something hes interested in) OK so if he helps u pick up your things work it from there. HAVE FUN WITH IT!
its kinda a differnt approch but why not try it? i mean going up to someone and saying hi is soo overated. o if you have any clases with him u could ask for the homework. perhapes give me more information about him and then i could give you more ideas
-bmf
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Hey, someone wrote in my yearbook "i am your distra" what does that mean?!?! only answer if you're positive.
thanks
Hey "i am your distra" kinda weird, but have u ever thought of just askin that person what it means? it sounds dumb but you'll get your answer.
- Bmf
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