Hey omg i absolutly love your advice column...ok well i really need some help, how do u make a guy want to kiss you?(im pretty positive that he wants to but im not sure)! please help me!
Now, I'm a rather overly-cautious person so i'd make damn sure he feels the same way before i go about flirting. But some people are more confident than others, so:
If you don't to kiss him first, instead you want him to iniate things - it's all about drawing attention to yourself, making him druel. Wear lip gloss, it makes your lips look pouty. Or when you're talking to him, playfully run your fingers across your bottom lip (nonchalantly of course). [ spikedsanity's advice column | Ask spikedsanity A Question ]
lovelylacey answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 3:22 pm: Well... thank you.Let's see.You can't really make a guy want to kiss you.It's all in liking the person and the right time.He'll make the move when he's ready to.Just be patient.No rush.Then you'll be okay.You can't be so sure the guy wants to kiss you.Or likes you.Take it slow.Well hope I helped
cOuRtaNdaLeX answered Sunday May 29 2005, 2:20 am: well, just be really flirty. sometimes girls have to make the first move, and that's okay!! where your favorite lip gloss.. hehe.. i know you might be nervous but sometimes it's just best to go ahead and kiss him first. he might think YOU dont want to kiss HIM! hope i helped. ask if you need anything!!
sunkistsarah answered Friday May 27 2005, 11:51 pm: Hey...thanks!
Well if he doesn then you should give him some signs so he knows you want to too! Just hold his hand and like rub his arms or back and be really flirty...
gaze into his eyes and look down at his lips...i know it sound weird but it works...and even if he doesnt kiss you...you should go for it...you will never know unless you do it..and he will probably like the way you take the first step...
hope this helps some!!
montrealfan answered Friday May 27 2005, 11:43 pm: To be honest a girl has never kissed me. what you could do is send this question out to everybody but you have to be a registered user. But my advice is No GUY HATES GETTING KISSED BY A HOT GIRL. rate me
---montrealfan [ montrealfan's advice column | Ask montrealfan A Question ]
MmSBaBe167 answered Friday May 27 2005, 8:35 pm: thank you and,if you want a guy to kiss you is to make first sure if he wants to do it or is ready but if you guys hang out then just lean in and grab it take it if you can even get a peck on the cheeck in just go for it here to help
CHACH answered Friday May 27 2005, 7:39 pm: aw yay. just when your alone with him do that whole flirty talk thing. dont back off and if you really wanted to you could just straight up tell him you want to and see what he says. chances are if you think he wants to kiss you he probably does! [ CHACH's advice column | Ask CHACH A Question ]
crAzy4yA05 answered Friday May 27 2005, 7:21 pm: thank u! well make the first move.just start gettin close to him..like real close! lol if it seems like he feels uncomfortable and like hes trying to puch away just stop there...but if not..go for it! most guys like when girls make the first move..so im sure he'll enjoy it ;)good luck! [ crAzy4yA05's advice column | Ask crAzy4yA05 A Question ]
bass_chick answered Friday May 27 2005, 7:10 pm: Ha alright,
so you know he likes you that’s good, Unfortunately I cant make him kiss you (I wish!) but I have some ideas! first your going to have to hang out with him. If your with a group of friends have a someone dare you two to kiss...
BUT if your not Into that I suggest that you just kiss him. possibly hang out together(like go to the movies or hang at someone’s house) and then, when the moments right(which you’ll now) kiss him! Think of it this way: You can spend your whole like waiting for something to happen, or you can make it happen now.
Good luck
aliciadear answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:58 pm: Sweetie, you can't "make" a guy do anything he doent want to do. i know you probably hate that answer, but it's really the best i can give you. Guys arent the brightest beings on the planet, so even if you did send im signals, he wouldnt get them. lol. good luck though! [ aliciadear's advice column | Ask aliciadear A Question ]
vermillion26 answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:58 pm: well, first of all thank you. hmmm...if you think he likes you you might try asking him out, but you might not be that sure or ready for that. i'd suggest flirting more, it may be that he does want to kiss you, but he doesn't want to make a fool of himself, if you flirt with him it might tell him that you like him too. once you flirt notice how he flirts back and if he flirts back. is it genuine flirting or is it just to be polite? let him know you like him too, subtley if you want to. once you are comfortable enough you might want to ask him out, or just kiss him. he'll probably come around before then, though. hope i helped.
kngbff21 answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:52 pm: ThNx!! well .. i mean .. like make sure you have a good relationship & like tlk about it .. i mean if he cares about you as much as - hopefuly - you care about him .. he wont mind .. well if any of that doesnt work .. you know what to do! .. good luck!! - kNg! [ kngbff21's advice column | Ask kngbff21 A Question ]
sparklingpink741 answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:51 pm: aww thank you I love it too, j/k...umm, well if you want a guy to kiss you and you know he wants to kiss you let him make the first move, if he doesnt get romantic ( toucy feely and maybe watch a movie I only know this because of my step sister whos 18 man they need to go to her room lol j/k ), I wish I knew who this was, lol...hope this helps! xoxo... [ sparklingpink741's advice column | Ask sparklingpink741 A Question ]
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You cant really 'MAKE' a guy want to kiss you. Unless of course you just pull him toward you, stare at him, and shove your mouth up to his. Thats 'MAKING'.
helpful_jess answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:46 pm: erm lol im not really good at these things but just put your head on his shoulder and hug him or something youve gota find the right moment so if you feel it is then go for it give him a little kiss first and then build up 2 a snog dont make him feel nervous or put off and if he really doesnt want to then your gonna have to wait till hes ready im afraid if you cant wait then get rid of him and find someone that aint as stiff as an ironing board lol sori i dont think he will pull away though cause uasually its the guys that make the first move but if he is shy make him feel relaxed hoped ive helped [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
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