My name is Lacey,I'm 16 years old.I am a very talkative person,also athletic.I play softball and outgoing and nice.I'm an open person,Willing to answer any questions.Well if you want to know more about me IM me on my s/n and i'll be sure and answer anything.
E-mail: lovelylacey08@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Houston,TX
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: LACEY LiKE WOAHH
Yahoo: Crazypink08@sbcglobal.net
MSN: lovelylacey08@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 15, 2005
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Ok...so there's this guy that i really really like...and we have our winter formal dance coming up and i really want to ask him but i'm one of those girls who are like super shy. we talk pretty much everyday...so it's not like we're strangers or anything haha anyway...i was just wondering if you have any "catch phrases" or ways to ask someone to a dance? THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!
singed, shouldi? (link)
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well if you talk everyday it shouldn't be too hard.Just gradually bring it up.Like be like are you going with anybody to the formal?&& if he says no or I'm thinking of asking someone be like.Well... I was wondering if you wanted to go.Just something special.You don't need to impress him with something ohh so smart to say.A simple way of putting it.Well hope I helped.
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Hi there. So, there's this guy named Robbie. I've liked him ever since 7th grade and now i'm in 9th. He's super sweet, and like a really good friend, but if i ask him out, i'm affraid that our friendship may be disrupted. what do you think is the best way to go?
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Well it's really all up to you.If you think it will last && is worth it.Go ahead.If you think that if you asked him out it would change yalls relationship.Then just stay good friends.It's a matter of the results.Depending on whats he like && knowing if he likes you in that way.Don't come to conclusions either.Just relax && take it slow.I suggest you stay friends , But you can do what you please.If you think it's worth your friendship then do so.Well hope I helped.Update && keep asking questions.
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hey well i liked this guy at the very beginning of the year n i cud tell he liked me.. and then he told his friend he didnt well at the end of the year we really started liking eachother and we started goin out.. i acted liked i really cared about him but then i felt that i cudnt tell him i loved him n it hurt him when i didnt say it back.. but then i did somthin with another guy while we were goin out n i told him n he was upset though we got back together and we seemed like a better couple.. i still didnt feel like i wunted to b around him alot.. but i did .. i even thot i loved him.. well then i noticed we were too good of friends.. but still we werent friends if we werent lovers as it seemdd to me... well anyways i broke up with him while he went out of town over the summer.. hes is still outa town.. but i miss him alot.. and now i told him i didnt kare if we got back together or not out of anger.. i thnk he wants to get over me.. but i keep dreamibg about him.. and i really do miss him.. how do i tell him i made a mistake and i want him back without looking like i dont know wut i want???by the way im in ur grade and yes u kno me...
Sincerely,
Blury Vision (link)
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Well from the start why did you do something with a guy?Was it really necessary?When he comes back to town.Express to him you "DO" care if you guys get back together,Because you still have feelings for him.If he doesn't accept it or want to.Then you have to accept the fact he doesn't want to come back.See how he's doing.Do whatever it takes to see how he feels and everything.If he isn't ready for it.Don't sit there and wait til he feels as though to come back.Just be cautious he's there but don't be so forceful.Well hope I helped keep me updated
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and my dad knows that we have something going on..and while u were writing a response he asked me out....we started going out on june 22nd! (link)
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Nice...Good for you.I'm glad it worked out for you.Tell me what happens with you guys.
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okay heres the story first my dad works at a big company and recently they hired a new kid whos only 19 so my dad and his started talking about me..( my dad isnt his boss they just work together) about a week later we exchanged aim s/n (his idea) and like when hes on he doesnt really talk its basically a "whats up" and then he stops talking. Does that mean he doesnt like me even just as a friend? also hes so shy everytime i see him when i go for my dad at lunch he just sits there smiling but doesnt talk whats his deal? but theres another question how can i spice up our conversations a little??? People had told me that it maybe because of his age but he had said age doesnt matter...this is something he recently told my dad's other friend."WorkinIt234(6:15:26 PM): and im 19 shes atleast 16 and im within 4 yrs so its legal besides age doesnt matter and shes cute" any ideas? i rate high and even if your answer isnt that good ill still rate pretty good. thank
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Alright...So your 15, and he's 19.Big difference,But that doesn't always matter.Question is that does your father know yall have something going on or not.I don't know.Might be a issue.Maybe not.Your relationship seems strange.He might be the stand back kind of guy though.More of the layed back kind.You have to get the side of him where he talks more.Try to ask questions in your conversation get to know him better.He may not like you though.Although he might.Theres the chance of it not working though.Just act normal.Try flirting with him some.Not too much that would throw him off.Just keep him on the edge of his seat.See what your going to do next.Hope I helped.Keep me updated
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Lacey,
I'm bored out of my mind!! What do you do when your bored (don't tell me do your nails or any of that crap 'cause iI'm a guy!) anyways thanks for your time! (link)
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Hmmm...You make plans with friends.Keep yourself occupied.Throw a ball around.Just the simple stuff can make you not so bored anymore.Call some of your friends.Watch tv,Listen to music.Well I don't know what else really.Play a game.Do what you can.HEHE.Hope I solved the problem.Byes
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lacey..okay..well i have never ask someone like this for help..but i need someones advice one this..well life has been hell my parents call me a messed up teen..i allways think that there is no resons to life..i'd amit that i do drugs drink smoke and cut my self but all that stuff there makes mee feel a whole lot better ((happy)) i have lots of friends and people known me as bein popualar..but life at home is hard my parnets are so hard on me like if i forgot to turn in a simple piece of paper for homework im grounded that weeked or if i didnt put my hair up and take off my braslets for dance i get grounded..and just because i was sturgeling in skool for about a month they were decidenin to switch me skools but that would make me worse... im kinda scared of cuttin myself again because one of my bestfriends almost died on night we had to take her to the hospital and get stiched up..knowin that u could of lost one of ur bestfriends made me break down...im goin into the 10th grade and i feel like theres no point... (link)
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Your in a tough phase where you think there's no purpose of life and you get depressed.Well I know it's hard... You basically have to get involved with activities.Have a hobbie and hang out with people who have good influence.Trust me your friends reflect on you totally.Don't let your parents put you down.Even if their hard on you.Their doing it for a purpose and that is to lead you into the right direction.Because soon you will be on your own making your own decisions and won't have anyone to motivate you.Try not to put yourself down that will only make you worse.Keep your head up and try your best.And your parents get angry and they call you things that they don't think about.Ignore them.And your bad choices on doing drugs/smoking/drinking/cutting.All those can lead you into deep obsessed and addicting.You will get worse and worse.You need to realize that all those bad decisions catch up on you.Stopping now is the best.Not because I'm saying it just to say it , But truely it's a bad effect on you.Well Hope I helped.Keep posting and updating.
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Hey omg i absolutly love your advice column...ok well i really need some help, how do u make a guy want to kiss you?(im pretty positive that he wants to but im not sure)! please help me! (link)
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Well... thank you.Let's see.You can't really make a guy want to kiss you.It's all in liking the person and the right time.He'll make the move when he's ready to.Just be patient.No rush.Then you'll be okay.You can't be so sure the guy wants to kiss you.Or likes you.Take it slow.Well hope I helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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I don't know what to do. I like this girl alot and I don't think she likes me back as more than a friend. It's also the middle of summer so even if I could ask her out that's another reason not to. What do you think? (link)
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Well you don't really know if the girl likes you or not.Just get to know her more.Act normal.She might just want to be friends with you and sometimes you have to let it be.I mean would you want to ruin a good friendship.Sometimes its better to have a close bestfriend then a g/f that you would probaly break up then feel awkward talking to them and your not as close.And some girls don't like having boyfriends in the summer.They like being single and having fun rather then having drama.Keep my updated to see whats up.Hope I helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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hey baby nice lil advice page.... i dont have a question, i have more of a lil message. im so glad ive had the pleasure of knowing your for the past few months, and i have fallen for u. your the most precious thing to me right now,i cherish you. there isnt a day that goes by without me thinking of you , missing you. ive never felt this way about a girl b4 . i used to think i knew what love was with past girlfriends, but i was always wrong. i also thought id never find that one special someone. now i have found her in you.
i love you,
Enamorado (link)
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Hey you... OMG.Your so amazing.I'm glad I met you too.Your the sweetest.You know how I feel.I have no need to share it here.You know I feel the same.Thank you for being here for me.
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what do i do when my boyfriend wants me to loose my virginity to him and i'm only 14 years old?? i dont know what to do, and i dont know if thats the only reason he's going out with me or not!! how do i find out?? i dont know if i should go along with it and what happens. . .happens!?! please i need some advice!! i dont know what to do!? (link)
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Okay... this tends to be a problem b/c the boyfriend might tend to be more agressive and you aren't that agressive.Try talk to him.He might be in it just for the sex.I'm not sure.It's hard to tell really.Just make sure he's not.Keep posting
~*~Lacey~*~
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most of my friends think i have ADD....i really want to knw if i do but my mom dosnt think i do so she dosnt have the time to take me anywhere....how can i figure out if i do and give my mom that info. because i really need to knw if i do (link)
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I have ADD and also ADHD.The sytoms are...
-If you can't pay attention in class
-If you forget things easily
-Excessive talking
-Can't focus
-Cannot sit still
-Finish tasks
-Not fully aware of whats going on around you
-Usually disorganized
-Easily distracted
-Often blurting out answers before questions are completed
-Having difficulty in following instructions
-Often shifting from one uncompleted task to another
-often makes careless mistakes in schoolwork, work, or other activities
Theres alot more but you can get tested at the doctors if you may think you have any of those symptoms.Hope I helped
~*~Lacey~*~
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i have this friend who is a boy and we have been best friends forever!! and we have liked eachother just 2 times of our life.. i dont no what to say to himand i dont no how to say it. he flirts w me all the time and its fun but i feel lead on sometimes.. and thats bad.. i thnk liking your best friend s bad.. but i admit it now.. i used to deniy it.. say i didnt nlike him .. but i do and i no it.. so does evryone else..i jsut want to no what to say to him.. and how to say it.. ya no? (link)
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Well this seems to happen when you get to this point.You've been friends for the longest time and you have the same qualities and know alot about each other.Most of the time one or the other likes each other and thats fine.If you both like each other consider discussing it with him.Ask him if he likes you maybe more than a friend and if he does say you do too.I don't know if the best idea is going out because thats your bestfriend and I think its best if you stay friends because then if you guys break up you might feel awkward talking to each other and not talk and not be as close,But if you chose to go out be sure not to lose your bestfriend.It's always nice to have someone there.Well hope I helped.Keep updating and asking for advice.
~*~Lacey~*~
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ehh hey..well i have friend issues..like me n this girl ive known for a long time..we got in a fight..b/c i was friends with this girl she didnt like and she hated her..so she hated me..she said to make a deal. eitha i chose her or i chose the girl she hated..if i did then she said she will not talk to me again. if i chose her then the girl she hated will not be my friend anymore..iono what to do..whos side to choose..i have only known the girl that my friend wants me not to be friends with for about a few months and shes soo sweet and nice..what should i do? please help.. (link)
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This is a toughy.But the thing is that if she cannot deal with you having more than just her than thats her issue really.Just because she hates her doesn't mean you should chose between them.The main problem is with the friend you had for awhile.She is jealous and angry with you because you've known her longer and isn't use to you having another friend.She wants her attention to of her not anyone else.So she says chose.Well you don't really have to chose.If she cannot take that she dislikes her then thats her fault.Try talking to her.Reasoning out why you should chose.Ask her why do you have to make me friends with just her rather than having more?Just because she strongly dislikes someone you can't be friends with.Basically have a one on one talk with your friend and see what happens.Post results.And ask for more advice.Mmkay well hope I helped
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Hey Lacey...Recently I've noticed that I like this girl (you know her she's in science with us) but I don't know if I want to or even if I should ask her out...what do you think? Also I don't know if she would say yes...is there some sign that girls give if they like you? Haha
Thanks,
CuriousGuy (link)
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Well first off.Do you really like her or is it a week or two and you like someone else.I mean you got to be sure you like her.And signs of liking someone.If she always smiles at you.Laughs at you.Kinda flirts with you.Plays with hair.Some what touchy when she talks to you.Stuff like that.To get an idea.Try flirting with her and see if she reacts good and starts flirting with you back you might have a chance.Mmkay well hope I helped.Byes
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Hey Lacey,
Ok I met this girl online and we've been internet dating. We're talking bout meeting (with our parents there of course) Do you think this is a good idea? If so then how would you suggest we ask our parent's so they say yes?
We're both 13 (I'm 14 in a month) but im in 8th grade and she's in 7th. We get along awesome and we really like each other. We will meet at Katy Mill's Mall and she only lives like an hour away from here. If you need extra information IM me!
ConfusedGuy (link)
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Well first of all...This internet dating thing could be a good idea...But also can lead to...Missing each other terribly and can't see each other often or Not being happy with this.It may work.This is your choice completely.Make sure yall really like each other before you go on having feelings for her.She lives quite far away.I wouldn't wanna move on with this relationship...Before yall get hurt.But if you feel it will work then go for it.My honest opinion is to not get involved with this gir.But maybe that's just me.Talk to her about this.Make sure you want this badly enough that you don't see her often.Alright well hope I helped.Byes
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i broke up with this girl a little over a year ago and ive missed her ever since. i regret breaking up with her but we never saw each other because she lived kinda far away. i still love her, and i just wanted to know what i should do. Should I tell her how i feel? or act like i dont miss her? I would do anything for this girl..and my life would be perfect if i had her back. she doesnt feel the same, and that tears me apart. Any advice? (link)
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Well I mean if you broke up with her than I guess that's how it should be.If you never saw her.I mean it could work.But it would be very difficult.And it has been a l0ng time since you guys have been together.And if she doesn't feel the same anymore then I guess you have to move on.And she probaly doesn't want to be hurt again.Since you did break up with her.You could try talking to her about it though.She may still love you ,you never know.Alright well h0pe i helped byes.
~*~Lacey~*~
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Alright well last year I was on two leagues. I played softball for the school and for southside. When I played last year i got SO sick of it and I wanted to quit one league I never did. Now since its winter and like cold out ive been DIEING to play softball. I have one brother but hes never home, so I cant play catch with him and I have one friend who likes softball but can hardly ever hang out.And I took socks and rolled them up together and Im a pitcher, so I put a target on my wall and was pitching to my wall for an hour but it got boring , but i stil want to play catch or hit the ball or something what can I do? Sorry if its long. (link)
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If you don't honestly like softball I suggest you don't play.The erge to play may come since you did play softball.I mean I played since i was 5...I'm starting to think It's getting boring.But now that i think about it.I want to play.And pitch.Go to the batting cages or find a friend with the same interests as you.Or get a ball and throw it at the wall.I dont know really what else to say about that.Try making new friends who like softball.Well hope I helped.
~*~Lacey~*~
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my nmom would never admitt thats shes always given my oldest sister the most attention. MShe gets first choice in anything we do. and mean ANYTHING. my mom would never admitt it but i hate it. Everytime i confront her about it shes all "oh dont pull that shit on me. grow up." blah blah blah. what should i do?
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Sometimes you may feel a bit frustrated with the who gets more *Attention* and such.But thats the way it always is.But usually its the other way around.The younger one always get his/her way.But in this case.I suppose your mother may choose to pick a more mature however i dont know.Make It clear to your mother.Confront her about it.Even If she goes on and tells your is bull.Tell her how you feel about this.Say its offending you and you want it to change.Say your avoiding your possibilities.Well hope I helped.Get posting.
~*~Lacey~*~
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Ok I liked this girl and we were becoming really good friends. I asked her out and she said no...and since then it seems that she doesn't act the same around me. Is it just me or is it really because I asked her out? Do you think I ruined our friendship by asking her out? And if you think I did how do you think I could try to make it like it used to be? Thanks,
Guy That Wants His Friend Back (link)
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Well since you like her.I think shes kind of surprised and being distant.She realized a friend of hers likes her.You may think It's scaring her.But really she just wants to be friend.It takes time.Try being distant for awhile.Try to get over her and try to be friends If that's what you want.I know It may hurt but try your best.After awhile she'll might think your over this.And be your friend.It may not be the same though.But It's okay.Well hope I helped.
~*~Lacey~*~
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