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im torn between
in our group there is a bout ten of us. i have got close to one of them and 5 or 6 pple in the grouop are saying that ive changed and one of them have gone really bitchy and twisting everthing up. she is really jealous and is makin the rest of them go against me. the person i have got close has fallen out the group so now im stuck between the girl im close to and the group.im realy dont know what to do.anyone been in this situation?
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Dear Torn.
"friends come and go But best friends stay forever. the way I see it, is you have 2 choices: you could continue hanging, with people who aren’t really there for you. or someone who’s come to be a best friend.(or could)
What happens if this group decides to "dumb" you like the other girl? its not worth it. you don’t need FAKE friends you can do better. I also think that this girl that's fallen out, of the groups favor might need someone to talk to. Think how she feels? im not going to force you to do anything. It’s a matter of what kind of person you want to be. You can be that popular girl in the group, always worrying if your so called friends like you. or someone who has a real best friend. someone who'll always be there for you.
-Bmf
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whoever you like more, hang with them. talk to ur friends and ask why they care so much?
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