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How do i get the guy i want. i just want to get to know him better. basically how do i get into a relationship to the point that he can actually say hi to me? Thanks in advance!
~Linda
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Be your self. It is important that you don't act differently around your guy because he will see right through it and think you are fake.
Be happy. If you smile you will look more approachable and friendly. He wont want to be with someone who looks unhappy all the time. Also when your with your mates and he's with his, flash him a nice flirty smile.
Give him compliments. Guys get insecure about themselves just as much as us girls so he'll love it when you boost his confidence now and then.
Find out what kinda stuff he is into. Then do some secret research on it. he'll think its cool that you like the same cool band as him or his fave movie. Don't go overboard though, if you have Everything in common with him it'll soon get boring.
Laugh at his jokes, even the bad ones. not hysterically though or he might twig what you're up to.
When you are chatting to him, gently touch him on the arm in a sweet flirty way.
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Well i like someone and i always talk to them on line or call them so maybe u can talk to them online or call them like look it uo in the phone book or ask around for his aim adress
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just say hi to him whenever you see him and just start talking to him. flurt with him whever you get the chance
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Just say Hi everytime you see him. This will train him to say hi back eventually. Soon he will actually say hi to you first when he sees you because he will be expecting you to say hi to him. I know this answer must sound smart assed, but from your question you wanted him to say hello to you on a regular basis. This will work. It does take patience and friendliness. With true luck he'll eventually be comfortable enough with hello to say something else. Luck and Love!
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ha i can answer this! alright first you should find out things he likes to do.. like his favorite cd. (ect) once you've got that its time to make your move. my personally favorite move it the "accidently bump into him" yea i no lame but it works maybe even drop a few things (perhapes a cd/book.. something hes interested in) OK so if he helps u pick up your things work it from there. HAVE FUN WITH IT!
its kinda a differnt approch but why not try it? i mean going up to someone and saying hi is soo overated. o if you have any clases with him u could ask for the homework. perhapes give me more information about him and then i could give you more ideas
-bmf
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well, like my friend Colin said, I am going to say it, flirt thats all you can do, introuduce your self he will never notice you if you stay in the dark about it.
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This may sound like an obvious answer but.. just be yourself!
You may make a point to walk in the area you know he will be and casually say "hello". That way he will be made aware of you. Don't be afraid to say Hi first. Just do not overdo it. Don't be pushy or annoying.
Guys like to go for girls that they have to chase, ones that aren't overly available. They like a challenge.
Don't try to be what HE likes , just be you. Think about it... if you have to change yourself to suit anyone else Whats the use? Be proud of YOU and take pride in being YOu and don't bother with anyone you have to go out of your normal behavior to please.
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go up to him and just say hey _______! how was your day? strick up a conversation and ask him if he wants to catch a flick on a weekend/this summer. if that dosen't work i donno what will.
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just talk to him first u say hi first then you guys can have a relationship and maybe be good friends one day
or u can just be flirty around him
hope i help
<33 ling ling
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