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Hi im 13 and i need help. I feel bad every time my techer says get into groups or get into parners. no one will ever be paners with me. I have alot of friends but none of them are in my group. i Have one friend in my group but she always volenteers to work alone.(we have an odd numder of kids)I end up being patners with geeks or freaks or babys. basily kids i dont want to be parners with.
Note: please dont say be yourself (i am/was.)
F/13
From:Dork girl
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Aww Hunnie.. I always had this problem in school. We are definitely alike. Please dont worry about it, If you get partenerd up with someone new in any class, you never know you might actually like the person and even make friends. Maybe ask your friends if they could be partners with you, and take a break from the old girls their going with. Sort of like take turns.
I hope things turn around.
xO * KRiSTEN
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Hun, if your so close-minded as to not like people based on thier popularity ("I end up being patners with geeks or freaks or babys. basily kids i dont want to be parners with.") How can you expect other people to? Tell your frined that you want to work with her, ahe may think you'd rather work with the other people.
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Dear Dork girl,
i understand what your going through. in 8th grade i never had a science partner. i had a alot of friends tho i was just the odd one out.
C my friends never knew i disliked being partners with.. yea no the weird kids. so one day i was very angery bc i couldnt take it anymore and i told someone about it 'Chris' anyway chris went behind my back and yelled at alll my friends for "ditching" me. I was sorta embarassed about all of that. personaly you dont want that to happen you need to talk to your friends about feeling left out (they'll understand dont worry) because you dont want someone else doing it for u
good luck
-Bmf
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First, don't think you're a dork. I promise you're not. I can tell by the way you phrased your question that you're definitely not a dork. Now for my answer... some friends often excluse their other friends, especially if there is a limit to the amount of people able to be in the group. I recommend you talking to them. It's the best way. I know it sounds tough and will make you look desperate but it won't. Friends deserve to communicate and know what's going on. If they are your true friends, they'll tell you why & then you can use your own judgement on whether they're worth it or maybe if you should talk to your other friend who works alone & ask her if she'll work with you.
xO TANA*
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