My name`s Montana but you can call me Tana. I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I guess you could say i've been through alot even though i'm only 13. Feel free to ask me anything! If I don't know the answer right off hand, i'll find out from someone who may know.
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Member Since: May 26, 2005
Answers: 8
Last Update: May 27, 2005
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ok see i started goin out with this boy tony 2 days ago and my friend katie used to go out with him!! but now she has a boyfriend that she says she luvs so much!! his name is travis!! and she used to be in luv with tony(the boii i go out with)!! and everytime im around her she always talks badd stuff on him!! she tells me how he will ditch me and stuff!! everytime i tell her stuff that he says gOOd about me she always says"he doesnt mean that"! part of me thinks shes jealus! and everytime im over her house and he calls she always runs to the phone and she will never let me talk to him! and i dont think its fair cause she has a boyfriend!! i think she is madd that i go out with tony but wen i ask her she says she aint madd!! so i dont kno wat to b~leave!! can sum 1 rly giv me good advise to tell her or him!!???!? cause its breaking my hart!! ~kayla~ IM me on AIM at eckoprincess1169 (link)
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There are two possibilities: he honestly isn't a good boyfriend or she's jealous. I'm leaning towards she's jealous. Judging by the things she's saying and the actions she's taking, it sounds like she's feeling bad that you're dating him now. Tell her you really need to know the truth and you won't be mad. Explain to her that you want to know if he honestly isn't a good boyfriend or if she's just saying that. Also, make sure it's okay with her that you're dating him.
xO TANA*
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My friend is going to be moving and I was planning for a couple of weeks to throw a going away party for her, and I informed her about it because I knew that in her busy schedule, I wanted to pick out a time that would work. Now I hear that her other friend, who is being really clingy, is also throwing a party for her. I've known her longer, and I know her better. I also know all of her friends better. I want to spend time with my friend and throw her this party that I was telling her all about, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings! Any suggestions? (link)
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I know this may seem like a bad idea but maybe you should talk to her "clingy" friend about letting you two share the party. That way, nobody's feelings get hurt and you'll be able to spend time with your friend. Explain that 2 parties may be a bit much and you really wanted to throw her one since you've known her so long. Hopefully, this other friend will understand.
xO TANA*
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This girl is flirting with my boyfriend and she is trying to break us up and I really like him and don't want him to cheat on me like my last boyfriends. HELP! I don't know what to do. I am confused. (link)
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Talk to your boyfriend about it. Communication is the best. If you tell him how you feel, hopefully he'll understand and assure you that you're the only one for him and that her foolish flirting won't affect him. Good luck! If you ever need any more help, let me know.
xO TANA*
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I have a pet monkey. I also have an awesome girlfriend who I plan to ask for her hand in marrage. I love her a lot and she means the world to me. However.. I had alredy bought a very expensive white gold and diamond encrusted engagement ring. But.. I know this is going to sound stupid and made up.. but my monkey ate it. He seriously honest to god te it! I dont have enough money to buy her a new one.. so what to I do? (link)
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Evil, little monkey. Well, obviously you should take it to the vet. It went in and it's bound to come out sometime. The vet will know what to do. And also, explain it to your girlfriend. I'll bet she'll get a kick out of it. Either way, good luck with the ring, the monkey & your new marriage!
xO TANA*
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Hey guys um I weight 128 and I am 13 I have been trying to loose some weight. But I never can how is the fastest why to loose weight like 10 in a week or 2 please tell thinks (link)
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The key to loosing weight is eating food to fuel you, not keep you busy. Alot of people make the mistake of eating just to eat. Think about whether you are really hungry. If you are an active person (like me) then you need alot of food to keep you energized. Sometimes though, I can be a real couch potato. In that case, I really don't need alot of food to keep me going since I'll probably just be lying down flipping channels. It's all in the eating habbits. You can really benefit from changing what you eat also. If you had a donut when you got home from school, try something good like a refreshing fruit salad over chilled strawberry yogurt. There's plenty of filling smoothie recipes online too & that's the yummiest way to get fit fast!
xO TANA*
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I get embarassed so easily!! I can't help it. Then I think over about what I did all night and I'm even more embarassed!! HOw can I stop this?? (link)
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Being embarrassed is a part of life. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I completely understand where you're coming from though. Sometimes over anylizing things can definitely make them work. For example, thinking about something embarassing will just make it worse. What you have to think to yourself is that everyone makes mistakes and that you made one & just laugh it off. I know how hard that sounds but just think how much better you'll come across to all the people that you feel embarassed in front of if you start laughing along with them. Good luck!
xO TANA*
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are boobs really important to guys? should i be "showing some skin" to get boys to like me? girls are always talking about who they made out with at the last party..should i be doing stuff with guys to get more popular? (link)
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To tell you the truth, showing some "skin" attracts the wrong kind of guys. In my opinion, if I guy is attracted to you because of how revealing your clothes are, he obviously isn't the guy you'd want to be dating. Think about it, if some girl walks by wearing next to nothing, he might as well go and talk to her. Don't worry about doing things to get more popular. Being yourself is the best & it will help you attract a guy WORTH attracting. Not some low life who's jaw drops everytime some Britney-wannabe walks by. Good luck!
xO TANA*
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Hi im 13 and i need help. I feel bad every time my techer says get into groups or get into parners. no one will ever be paners with me. I have alot of friends but none of them are in my group. i Have one friend in my group but she always volenteers to work alone.(we have an odd numder of kids)I end up being patners with geeks or freaks or babys. basily kids i dont want to be parners with.
Note: please dont say be yourself (i am/was.)
F/13
From:Dork girl (link)
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First, don't think you're a dork. I promise you're not. I can tell by the way you phrased your question that you're definitely not a dork. Now for my answer... some friends often excluse their other friends, especially if there is a limit to the amount of people able to be in the group. I recommend you talking to them. It's the best way. I know it sounds tough and will make you look desperate but it won't. Friends deserve to communicate and know what's going on. If they are your true friends, they'll tell you why & then you can use your own judgement on whether they're worth it or maybe if you should talk to your other friend who works alone & ask her if she'll work with you.
xO TANA*
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