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should i tell her to back off???!?
ok see i started goin out with this boy tony 2 days ago and my friend katie used to go out with him!! but now she has a boyfriend that she says she luvs so much!! his name is travis!! and she used to be in luv with tony(the boii i go out with)!! and everytime im around her she always talks badd stuff on him!! she tells me how he will ditch me and stuff!! everytime i tell her stuff that he says gOOd about me she always says"he doesnt mean that"! part of me thinks shes jealus! and everytime im over her house and he calls she always runs to the phone and she will never let me talk to him! and i dont think its fair cause she has a boyfriend!! i think she is madd that i go out with tony but wen i ask her she says she aint madd!! so i dont kno wat to b~leave!! can sum 1 rly giv me good advise to tell her or him!!???!? cause its breaking my hart!! ~kayla~ IM me on AIM at eckoprincess1169
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tell her to shut up and mind her own buisness
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Yep, she's either jealous OR she has if I can't have him nobody can syndrome. I think your best bet is going to be to ignore and don't believe anything she says about Tony. I think next time she starts talking crap about Tony you need to tell her (politely) that you really don't want to hear any nasty comments about him. Better yet don't tell her ANYTHING about him or what he says or does. That will not only take care of her comments but will also piss her off big time. Nicely of course. :)
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There are two possibilities: he honestly isn't a good boyfriend or she's jealous. I'm leaning towards she's jealous. Judging by the things she's saying and the actions she's taking, it sounds like she's feeling bad that you're dating him now. Tell her you really need to know the truth and you won't be mad. Explain to her that you want to know if he honestly isn't a good boyfriend or if she's just saying that. Also, make sure it's okay with her that you're dating him.
xO TANA*
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Well I think you are right. Actions speak LOUDER than words. She is jealous. She want you two to break up because she couldn't hold on to him. If she continues you may just have to choose. Can you just keep the two of them separated? Tell him not to call you when you are at her house. enjoy your friendship when you are with her, and enjoy your relationship when you are with him.
If your relationship with him was meant to be....it won't matter what she does to ruin it.
Michele
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Yes, she is very jealous. Next time you talk to her and she tries to put that propaganda in your head. Tell her 'You're just jealous, now shut up and admit my guy rocks your socks!'
She'll never bother you bout it again!
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Hey. Deffintily tell her to back off. He might not have liked her that much when they went out and thats why he ditched her and stuff. Tell your bf that he shouldnt call to talk to you at her house because she doesnt let you talk on the phone with him. It could be possible that she is mad that you went out with a guy that she used to love or shes just looking out for you becasue she thinks that he IS going to do what he did to her. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~
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i would tell her to back off, first of all its none of her buisness what goes on around you two and if she is jealous she will just have to get over it.as for her stealing the phone and disagreeing with whatever you say about him that just proves she is jealous and she will DEFANILTALY have to get over it.if u want a qoute to say to her then here is one. "hey you don't want people to talk about your boyfriend do you(no) ok, then don't talk bad about mine, you may be mad and i don't know it but just BACK OFF! if he ever gets the way you say he is then thats MY problem, not yours! ok? (ok.)" so there you go but don't be totaly rude about it. and if she still won't back off then ditch her, she isn't a true friend. hope i helped! good luck!
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Who are you willing to trust more. Some guy you hardly know, or your friend. She is speaking from experiance. She is giving you fair warning of what this guy is truely like. Of course you think he is great now, you have been dating for 2 DAYS! Take what she says into consideration.
If you still want to give it a try with this guy, tell your friend you appreciate the warning but you want to give him a chance, and in the future you don't need anymore advice about him unless you ask. Also if you don't want her comments, don't talk about Tony with her.
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