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Not so much of a Party


Question Posted Friday May 27 2005, 3:38 pm

My friend is going to be moving and I was planning for a couple of weeks to throw a going away party for her, and I informed her about it because I knew that in her busy schedule, I wanted to pick out a time that would work. Now I hear that her other friend, who is being really clingy, is also throwing a party for her. I've known her longer, and I know her better. I also know all of her friends better. I want to spend time with my friend and throw her this party that I was telling her all about, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings! Any suggestions?

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Additional info, added Friday May 27 2005, 3:53 pm:
Also, I'm not sure if having two parties is a little bit much... the same people would be coming to both, and I was wondering if that would be a stretch?.

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karenR answered Sunday May 29 2005, 4:41 pm:
Throw the party anyway! Everyone loves a party. Let the other friend have hers first so you can think of something really special to make yours different. Also, it will be remembered as the last party with all her friends. :)

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Kate05 answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:52 pm:
Maybe you and her other friend can work together and plan a big bash that way she can spend time with both you and the clingy one
Put two heads together and make a greay party


P.S Good Luck !!!!

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ii_LoVe_YoU_x3 answered Friday May 27 2005, 4:04 pm:
I know this may seem like a bad idea but maybe you should talk to her "clingy" friend about letting you two share the party. That way, nobody's feelings get hurt and you'll be able to spend time with your friend. Explain that 2 parties may be a bit much and you really wanted to throw her one since you've known her so long. Hopefully, this other friend will understand.

xO TANA*

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whatyousay32 answered Friday May 27 2005, 3:44 pm:
ask to have a party together but first make sure that she is really having a party it may be a misunderstanding, but if she is and she doesn't want to combine it then just have your parties on diffrent days, don't let her friend get you down!! good luck with the party
hope it all works out

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