are boobs really important to guys? should i be "showing some skin" to get boys to like me? girls are always talking about who they made out with at the last party..should i be doing stuff with guys to get more popular?
No, you shouldn't be showing more skin. Make sure they like you for yourself. Boobs are a bonus prize.
No, never "do things with guys" to be more popular. They like you or they don't. It's also very disrespectful to guys (or girls if a guy is doing it) if you are always talking about what you did with them. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
~FrOgGiEbAbE515~ answered Sunday May 29 2005, 2:58 pm: No! Because most likely these girls are going to become sluts one day. And if you plan to get far in lifeyou should always be yourself and never change who you are just ti become poukar! Hope Helped! AND Good Luck! [ ~FrOgGiEbAbE515~'s advice column | Ask ~FrOgGiEbAbE515~ A Question ]
xOtWiXi answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:06 pm: NO. NO. NO. NO. I can't stress that enough. Never wear anything that you are not comfortable wearing just to impress a guy. If a guy wants JUST that from you, it's not worth it because he's not really in it for YOU. And don't just try to fit in because you want to be popular - be you. You, yourself, will know when enough is enough whether it be bearing skin or making out. If you need anything else, just message me. Hope I've Helped ♥ [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
brittany_x31 answered Friday May 27 2005, 9:02 pm: no because some girls are considered sluts that do that with guys. You dont have to expose your body just to be popular. it also depends on your age and if you are ready.you dont have to do somthing with a guy/girl to make other people like you. thats what i would do but that my opinion
Best of luck!
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cheyenne answered Friday May 27 2005, 11:51 am: hey most guys want to judge all girlz boobs its like thier nature.but if you want to be poular u might could try to go to a few partys just dont get pregnant. [ cheyenne's advice column | Ask cheyenne A Question ]
xxxTrishiexxx answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:06 am: I think you should keep dressing they way you want to dress you dont have to show skin to get guys attintion they like other parts of you body as well. Some of them would rather look at your butt,and then there are the guys that get mesmerized by eyes dont put your self out there like those other girls some day there going to look back on what they did to get attintion from guys and there not going to be thrilled with them selves take it from me I'm 22 and I never showed more skin than need be. and I'm Happy I had plenty of friend (like over 100)and I still kept my dignedy and pride and doing things with guys isnt going to get to the popular club. your only as popular as you let other think you are if you walk tall and carry yourself high people will start looking up to you [ xxxTrishiexxx's advice column | Ask xxxTrishiexxx A Question ]
Michele answered Thursday May 26 2005, 8:17 pm: Yes if you want to be popular for all the wrong reasons.
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and oh yes, Boobs are only important to the guys that think a girl is nothing but a pair of boobs. What about brains, about your feelings, don't they matter too. They will to the right guy.
mmctrue answered Thursday May 26 2005, 8:07 pm: no way. just be yourself. guys like honest girls. you don't need to do stuff other people do to get more "popular" just making out with someone doesn't get you more popular.
TheTeenGirl answered Thursday May 26 2005, 7:57 pm: Definetly not. Boobs are important to guys your age, but that doesn't mean you have to or should show your skin to impress them. Popularity isn't a world you want to be in. Your friends maybe able to name off tons of guys, but I bet they don't know their last name or they don't even know them at all, thats moving too fast. Its like sex, do you want to randomly have sex with the next guy that crosses your path, or a guy you've known for about a year and you love them very much? You see, when you first make out with a guy and hes special to you because you're in love, it will be 10 times better than what your friends have done. You should want your first kiss, hug, I love you, or any of that from a guy you love and hopefully it will be one guy instead of multiple guys. When you look back, you'll know that first guy right off the back of your hand, but unless your friends look in a year book, they won't even remember. Guy's hormones are crazy around teenage years, but that doesn't mean we need to please them. Also, the guys your friends make out with parties are people who use girls for kissing probably, so its not a big wow just because you've made out with a popular guy or some guy at a party, hope I gave you some thinking to do.
Mackenzie answered Thursday May 26 2005, 7:38 pm: Honestly, boobs actually *AREN'T* as big of a deal to guys as giRls may think. As my fRiend *DEMONDRUMMER21 says, 'BReast size is like Pepsi and Coke... suRe we state a pRefeRence, but we'll take whateveR is theRe' [hhaha not an exact quote, but close enough] And you shouldn't be "showing some skin" if you aRe uncomfoRtable with it, peRiod. Don't eveR let otheR people make you feel like you'Re not good enough!! If *YOU'RE* comfoRtable with who *YOU* aRe, then that's *ALLLLL* that matteRs!! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
ii_LoVe_YoU_x3 answered Thursday May 26 2005, 7:30 pm: To tell you the truth, showing some "skin" attracts the wrong kind of guys. In my opinion, if I guy is attracted to you because of how revealing your clothes are, he obviously isn't the guy you'd want to be dating. Think about it, if some girl walks by wearing next to nothing, he might as well go and talk to her. Don't worry about doing things to get more popular. Being yourself is the best & it will help you attract a guy WORTH attracting. Not some low life who's jaw drops everytime some Britney-wannabe walks by. Good luck!
artistegirly answered Thursday May 26 2005, 7:24 pm: No, I wouldn't say "boobs" are impotant as you think. My parents are really strict and I wear nothing low cut or too tight and I have a boyfriend! To be honest I think I'd rather have a boy wholiked me for who I am, not how easy I look, anyway!
Another thing, not to sound prude, modestyis a GOOD thing!
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