ok well my ex (name not needed#1) asked me out again and ive been with this other guy (name not needed#2)#1 is so nice and hes cared for me so much but ther both my ex'es and i dont know what to do so please help from your advice #2 is kind of mean to me but he kisses me with passion #1 is kind of slow on that and ive waited for him for 9 months we've been together then we broke up. now im confused if they were one person they would be SUPER GUY! and they dont know each other but they heard about each other from my firneds and they hate each other! I need help please.im thirteen and im female
karenR answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 2:00 am: I think ex 1 sounds good. If 2 is mean to you then his "passionate kisses" won't make up for that very long. Try ex 1 and if he doesn't kiss you...kiss him. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
VanityScore answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 9:48 pm: Unless thier love for each other turns to hate, and one of them can get pregnant, I don't think superguy will exist. Lol, sorry had to get that one out of my system. If you can't choose between them, I think it signals that you truly don't like either one of them. You like parts about them, but want them both, well, to be more like the other. But, to be honest, I can't really answer this for you...
One option is you could choose which one you like best, then talk about improvements with him (nicer attitude, moving faster)...
My own experience with exes and re-dating is that it's stupid. But that's not always the outcome for everyone, so do as you please. But keep in mind, you can't find the future in the past. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
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