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im 16 female missouri.. im a sophmore at McCluer.. i will help you anytime you all need help..... i love to help with relationship problems mostly but i help wit them all.. i play soccer and softball... if you need help ask me and i will be there for you..
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why is my dogs penis so much bigger then mine. It makes me mad and jealous of him. I wamt to cut it off and take it is that wrong? Do i need help?




Thanks, CHris G.S. (link)
yeh u need a lot of help, for one u shouldnt be looking at ur dogs dick and then on top of that comparing it.... it is very wrong to want to cut it off and take thats gross.... lol


I have known this girl for a long time, and we have share boyfriends in the past. Well this guy that I like is going out with her because she lied to him and told him i didn't care. I still like him a lot and don't know what to do. And he told me that he still loves me and wish he was with me sometimes. So what should I do? (link)
break up wit him..... he should just be with u.. ummmm if u want u dont have to.. or if you dont want to get rid of him and u still love him just talk to him and tell him how you feel.. he should completely understand!!!! thx for asking me a question if u need other help u can ask me


I have a large very sore lump on my head near my neck. I want to know what it is and if it is serious. (link)
Go to the doctor... it could be cancer.... Did you get scratched by a cat by anyway? Cause when i was in kindergarten i got scratched my cat and it had a disease called cat scratch fever... it might be that... who knows but go to the doctor and get it figured out..


I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong???? (link)
no its not wrong, but when he turns 18 it will be illegal and then if he touches you there is a great chance that he will go to jail!!!


my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
yeh you need to tell her.. he might keep doing it again and again and again.. and tell her what he told you.. and why you werent supposed to say anything.. its serious.


(im a girl round your age)well theres this guy i met back in february, and it was at a mixer and i completely forgot what he looked like. and then i talked to him for many months and thought 'well maybe we could be more than online friends'. hes so much like me. well he kind of likes me, my friend found out, and over the net he sent me a pic of him, and hes less than beautiful if you get my drift. the thing is i feel like i dont want to go out with him now because id feel really uncomfortable with that. now i feel shallow, but i feel it wouldnt work out somehow, plus were really shy around each other. am i being too shallow? i feel awful. this would be the first guy i ever went out with too. should i or not? please respond asap! (link)
what i would do is tell him that you font feel comfortable going out with him anymore... i dont think that is really shallow. it depends on how you look at it... if you dont think its gonna work than maybe your instincts are correct and they wont... just explain to him why and be completely honest about it... hope i helped and dont forget to rate me!!!


Theres this girl at school named Amber. She's so beautiful, i think im in love with her, Literally. The year is almost over and i want to make my move at the graduation dance so that i can be with her. Every night I cry myself to sleep thinking about her.What should i do?

- Shlb801-

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start talking to her more and more every day and kinda hint out that you like her..... that way she will know ... i dont know if you should wait till graduation though to make a move cause wat if someone else does before that??? then what. maybe you should start thinking about making ur move now!! Good luck and if you need any help just ask.. i check my inbox everyday


my dad...he yells an awful lot when i get in trouble, really really loud. it usually takes me a lot to cry, but i do almost every time after we have a fight. he thinks everything is about a level of respect. he makes me feel really bad and depressed sometimes when he yells and cusses. its not really the content, just the way he does it, and makes me feel sick of this house. i need a way to cope, because i usually cant listen to music or call a friend afterwards, and im confined to my room. i cant stop crying for a long time a lot, and he doesnt seem to care when i cry. i cant stand up to him because hes scary when hes mad (he NEVER hits me but the way he yells) and i just cant concentrate. please respond asap (link)
do you have a journal or something you can rwrite in? cause that could really help when your confined in your room... you need to talk to your dad about that and your feelings.. hes your dad im sure he will understand... its normal t cry over that.... i cry when my dad yells at me too.... all of the time.. well he used to until i talked to him. then he stopped and cut back on it a lil bit..


f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.

the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.

the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).


thanx for your advice
f/16 (link)
any guy that does drugs can be bad news.. he could offer you drugs and then force you into them.. personally i would go for the good guy just because you will get into less trouble (drug wise) and not have to worry about anything like that..


hi..im 14 and i still havent even had my first kiss yet. Nor even a boyfriend...ive been asked out before and i just get to nervous to respond. Also, i dont know what to do when im with a guy. Like when i liked this one dude and i sat by him on a charter bus and he was holding my hand and i just was like freaking out and i didnt know what to do...i turned around...what do i do??

**tHaNkS** (link)
just chill out.. tell him you want to start out slow.. he should understand... guys are human to sooo they should understand.. its not bad that you havent gotten your first kiss yet your just waiting for the right guy no big deal, and not having a bf can be a good thing sometimes cause having one can be very complicated and can upset you a lot and even make you cry.. a lot of girls dont even get there first bf until they get into there 2 year of highschool.. my friend who is her 3rd year hasnt had one yet.. she has been asked a million times but shes just not ready for that yet.... she likes things the way they are now.. so just think about that and dont do anything you would regret


OkaY there is this boy I like. And we go out, lets say his name is Chris. Well we were talking one night and he told me that he luved me and he wasnt kidding. And I told my friend I wasnt like I didnt believe it I mean if A boy just tells you that its really wierd. So yeah I told him I luved him back. But I dnt even know if he does. He told me he does and even e-mailed me saying that he luvved me and that he wasnt lyin. i really like him but im tottally not sur what to do and i like him alot. but i never really thought about luvin anyone until it was tru and how am i supposed to know its tru. i think i luv him but im not 100% sure and i told him that back so obviously he thinks i feel the same exact way. well please can someone tell me if you think he is playing with me. i mean he i liked him in the beginning of 8th grade but then he said that he couldnt go wit me cuz he aint want a girlfriend then all of a sudded we do go out and he is like all i luv u and he said he started likin me on the last day of school whitch was about a month and half ago..so its been a while and we have only been going out for..4dayz?!

Please help me! (link)
maybe hes rushing it a bit... tell him to slow down and that your not ready for that yet... if he really does truly love you then he will understand... guys tell there girlfriends that they love them all the time... when i dont feel the same way i honestly tell them that im not ready for that yet... no guy has ever broken up wit me over that.. so thats when i knew my bf now really loved me.. we have been together for only a month and 1/2 but we are good and we started slow.. just try that!!


I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER (link)
i hate breaking someones heart, but you gotta do what you feel is right. if you dont like him like that tell him in a nice way so that it wouldnt hurt his feelings. be kind and sweet about it.. call and say we need to talk.. after that you can just say you dont want a boyfriend right now, or you can just say im not into you like that anymore.. he should understand.. if you need anymore help just ask me i will always be here for you..


this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
its just wat they like to listen to i guess... its there taste in music


im startin a job in like a week and im waitressing and bussing and im really nervous howdo i get ova it? (link)
dont worry about it you will do perfectly fine.. just forget about being nervous and just think about having fun!!


Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!


My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????

Live2luvu (link)
always put your friends first.. friendships will last a lifetime when a bf could only last 1 min. how long has she been there for you? how long has he been there for you? Friends go first.. if she get over him then ask her about it.. if she doesnt want you to dont do it...


I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad? (link)
i think you should tell them.. they should support you.... and you need to tell them so you can find out who the baby's daddy is too... and also for health reasons... so i think you should tell the


hey..i got a problem with friends.they used to be my good friends..but now they hate me..i dun really know why, i just heard they hate me because they are jealous about me getting good results in examination last month and they say i'm proud. i want all of us to be friends as me used to.help me can my atitude (link)
if they are going to treat you that way.. they arent worth it at all.. get rid of them and find friends that arent going to be ignorant to you... they have no right to be like that.. if you got good grades for something and they are jealous maybe they should have sudied harder and maybe you derserved higher, because you studied for a long time..


What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back? (link)
just give him up. if he doesnt like you for who you are then he isnt worth your valuable time


Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
hey, if you like this girl and you think she likes you well then start talking to her more and then tell her that you like her one day.. if she says that she likes you too. thats awesome.. if you want and you have known her for a while ask her out.. whats the worst she can say. the word no.. wow no big deal.. everyone is afraid of rejection.. dont be... it stops everyone from doing osmething that they like..


i've gotten really depressed lately. my parents relationship is (excuse my french) going to hell, and my sibs are mixed with alchohol.
my little sis is spoiled like god only knows, and i'm kinda left to life in the middle. i guess my mirror has a little play too... i'm 14, weigh 200lbs, and am 5'7. i'm starting to not eat that much anymore, and i really need some help with this. (link)
My parents relationship is the same exact way.. what helps me is a good friend that i talk to all the time. i have also talked to my parents about it.. whenever they start to fight i usually ask them to wait until i leave or until later on when i cant hear it... dont worry about what you look like... keep eating dont stop that. that can be very bad for you. it could hurt you really bad.. just cut down on the snacks and eat 2 meals a day. thats what i did... u sould like a sweet girl so if ppl dont like you for who you are then they arent worth your time at all..... lil' sibs are always spoiled there is no way you can stop it. the best way is to avt like it doesnt even happen... i hope to talk to you later.. if you need any other help just ask me i will always me here for you sweetheart... im 15 so im kinda at the same stage as you..




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