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hey..i got a problem with friends.they used to be my good friends..but now they hate me..i dun really know why, i just heard they hate me because they are jealous about me getting good results in examination last month and they say i'm proud. i want all of us to be friends as me used to.help me can my atitude
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if they are going to treat you that way.. they arent worth it at all.. get rid of them and find friends that arent going to be ignorant to you... they have no right to be like that.. if you got good grades for something and they are jealous maybe they should have sudied harder and maybe you derserved higher, because you studied for a long time..
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It sounds to me like a clear-cut case of jealousy.They are feeling not as good as you so instead of congratulating you,they are turning on you.Of course you're proud!You have every reason to be,but always make sure that you don't go overboard or rub it in their faces a little,ya know?Let them know that you still care about them very much and that you don't think you're better than them at all.Perhaps point out some things that they are better than you at.If they can't accept that,and continue your friendship,they were never real friends to begin with!
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It's not you! They are jealous of you. I'm sure you have something they don't have in which they want. If they hate you for god knows what reason they are not real friends. A real friend wouldn't be like that. So find a new group of people to hang out with.
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First off thats really stupid they are jealous but stuff like that is apart of everyday life... i think you needa talk to these so called friends and be like whats goin on.. thats the best thing you could do to settle whatever conflict you have.. people can be stupid and not what to accept ur being the better person by doing this.. explain to them that just because u did better on a test it shouldnt change how tight u guys used to be.. i hope i helped yah if not sorry
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); Hunnie, you should be proud!! Getting good results on an exam is wonderful, and that should be no reason for your friends to start hating you. It doesn't seem like you have an attitude..I think it's more of your friends causing this than you. You'll have to talk to them about this. They could be jealous easily, who knows. Or if you do actually have a problem with your attitude you could tell them you'll try and control it. Since hating you because you got good results on the exam is what you heard you truly don't know that's the reason why they are mad. Ask them why. It could be something different. Just try and talk to them about things. It could be a little phase that they'll come out of!! I hope everything turns out okay! Love ya! -Mandee </span>
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well if they say stuff like that then they are not your friends.
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talk to them n see wuts wrong...dont listen to anyone else wut they say..just go and ask them y they been actin the way they are lately?!?! see wut they'll say talk things out ;) good luck xoxo effy
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well first of all, do you think you have an attidude? if so then talk to your 'so called friends' if they mean that much to you. SOunds to me like they are just jealous.(like you've already said)i know wat its like to lose a friend. Maybe its time to get new 1's that accept ur good results. Cuz thats wat a true friend would do. My advice is to just talk to them. Good Luck,
*Melody
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i think its kinda jerky of them to hate u jus becouse you got good results.You should ask them if they hate you.Becouse if you just heard it than it might not be true!Good Luck babe!Much <33
*BrittBritt
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