I have a friend who is going to a different college than me,about 350 miles away,and his girlfriend is a year younger and staying here. I recently broke up with a girl whose best friend is the most annoying person I've ever met. She never shuts up either. Anyway when I finally couldnt take anymore of her crap,about her relationship was gunna last even when her bf went to a far away college(long distance never works),I spouted off that my friend's relationship also wouldn't work, to her. The blabbermouth told my friend to intenionally get me in trouble. I didn't mean it is a cheapshot,but that's the way he took it. How do i patch it up with my friend and how do i kill(not really)this annoying,talking,girl?
AtlBabyGirl1 answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 4:07 pm: Well, sit him down and talk 2 him face 2 face and tell him that u didn't mean what u said 2 her it just blurtted out. But the was talking 2 damn much, and u just wanted 2 have at least a sec. of piece and qiuetness. But she wouldnt SHUT UP. He has to come around oh and something like u my best friend i would neva hurt ur relationship like that.
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xcutesyallyx answered Monday July 5 2004, 4:32 pm: YEA! like everyone else said..tell her to shut up! yes..it sounds mean.but you dont have to literally go up to her face and say "shut up!"...do it on the phone! hehe..just playin..but for real..u could callher up..or do it face to face..and say "listen, you dont realy have the right to go up to people and tell them what i tell you, so could you please not do that again" and aslo..to make sure she doesnt do it again..just dont tell her anyting anymore, and if she continues to be annoying..tell her you dont think yall should be friends..If she's going off and tellin ppl things that will get them pissed off at you..then she wont be too heartbroken if you let yall's frendship go. Now, about your friend, i agree with what everyone else said..call him up..and say your sorry for what you said..you didnt mean for him to hear it , but that its just your opinion..then to maybe make things better compliment him..say " man..i just said that cuz i dont think that I could deal with a long distance relationship..but you really have your heart set on this girl so i'm sure you'll do fine..I didnt mean it the way it came out and im sorry..will you forgive me?" true frends always forgive..just keep that in mind! wel i hope i helped! anything you need! im here! bye! [ xcutesyallyx's advice column | Ask xcutesyallyx A Question ]
tweety answered Monday July 5 2004, 3:41 pm: first of all since you are a guy.... don't get all mushy tell your friend the truth.... second tell the annoying one to shut the hell up.
TexasBaby07 answered Monday July 5 2004, 3:14 pm: well 1st off tell that blabber mouth to shut-up!! n that what you tell her doesent need to get out to the whole intier world... (n dont trust her w/anything else) n then call up ur friend n tell him that it was ur opinion that u thought... n that it wasent ment for him to take the wrong way n that you were sorry... n then be sure to make it clear that you werent sorry for speakin your mind!! becuz the quote "never be sorry for speakin your mind because that is sayin sorry for bein real" is true!! well i hope i helped out!!! have a fun n safe day!!! xoxoxoxo -Kayla [ TexasBaby07's advice column | Ask TexasBaby07 A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 4:07 am: hahah sorry but the way u seted up ur story its kinda cute n funny...lol well, try to ignore dis "blabbermouth" and dont tell her anything...dont trust her wit anything...tell ur friend that thats ur opinion n that dont mean that its gonna happen!!! i'm sure ur friend will understand ;) good luck xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
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