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OkaY there is this boy I like. And we go out, lets say his name is Chris. Well we were talking one night and he told me that he luved me and he wasnt kidding. And I told my friend I wasnt like I didnt believe it I mean if A boy just tells you that its really wierd. So yeah I told him I luved him back. But I dnt even know if he does. He told me he does and even e-mailed me saying that he luvved me and that he wasnt lyin. i really like him but im tottally not sur what to do and i like him alot. but i never really thought about luvin anyone until it was tru and how am i supposed to know its tru. i think i luv him but im not 100% sure and i told him that back so obviously he thinks i feel the same exact way. well please can someone tell me if you think he is playing with me. i mean he i liked him in the beginning of 8th grade but then he said that he couldnt go wit me cuz he aint want a girlfriend then all of a sudded we do go out and he is like all i luv u and he said he started likin me on the last day of school whitch was about a month and half ago..so its been a while and we have only been going out for..4dayz?!
Please help me!
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Ok let me tell you Boys that young dont know what the hell they want! Seriously i know how it is like they tell you the love you one day then shit you break up the next day. Guys are so wishy washy with their feelings! They think they love you but it might not be love it might just be strong feelings. If you dont love him back sweetie dont tell him you love him. And after 4 days i mean thats possible for him to love you or whatever but I doubt that quick. Do you think its love or just he likes you a lot? Dont jump into things to quick, your still young enjoy it! If its love you'll know for sure 100%! if its not then you wont know. good luck with figuring out your feelings
-Holly-
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maybe hes rushing it a bit... tell him to slow down and that your not ready for that yet... if he really does truly love you then he will understand... guys tell there girlfriends that they love them all the time... when i dont feel the same way i honestly tell them that im not ready for that yet... no guy has ever broken up wit me over that.. so thats when i knew my bf now really loved me.. we have been together for only a month and 1/2 but we are good and we started slow.. just try that!!
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whoa only 4 days and he tells you he loves you? ughh i think that you shouldn`t worry about loving some one right now unless your 100 percent that you really do love him.. because thats how you get hurt.. and no one wants to go threw that at all.But if you think he is playing around and it seems like that then you shouldnt tell him that.. unless you know he means it and you mean it because u dont want to go threw the pain when its over.. because im telling you alll the pain and stuff start with the i love you words. I hope i am answering this right.. but this is just what i think.
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this is what u do talk 2 him not by computer its best 2 do it face 2 face but if u cant then on the phone is good. Ask him say Chris do u really love me because its not right 2 play with a girl emotions like this. and if he says yes n hes not playing then be like its only been 4 dayz and i really dont know if i love you but i know i really really like, somewhere close to love. give sometimes cause u knw u just startin going out wit me THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL so you know. Just give time. i had this same situation my exboyfriend since 5th grade said i love u 2 me and i said back cuase i acutally felt the same way back n i ask him if was serious cause u know how do u know what love really is.
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only 4 days huh? WOW that boy moves fast. If you don't feel comfortable saying that right now, tell him that you're not ready to say that yet. And tell him when its the right time and he really does love you, to tell you then and you'll do the same! But if you're not sure that you love him, then that isn't love. You can't really explain what love is, you just have to actually be in love to understand it. You never think twice if you love someone or not... you just know!
xoxo Kourtney =)
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I think he might have a thing for ya.I think he means that he luvs u.U can never really tell if its true or not tho but u just have to sometime believe them.It doesnt matter how long hes liked u it jus matters that he does=DHope i helped!
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*BrittBritt
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wow sayin "i love u" after 4 dayz...moving fast there...but then again he liked u since the last day of school n u guys been talkin for n month n something so...i think its ok...u should kno if ur in love if u think bout the guy 24/7 n all u want to do is do it wit him...u always talk bout him...n when u think of him u automatically get a smile on ur face...u talk to him a lot...n u cant stand it when u cant talk to him for one day...u get butterflys when ur bout to see him or when u think of something sweet bout him...u tihnk of the sweetest names for him...n u think that he's the cutest,finest,hottest,sweetest,adorable amazing human that there could b...thats how u kno if ur in love...if u dont feel that then ur not but that dont mean u dont like him...just give it sometime get to talk to him more...get to kno him more...get to see him more ;) n things will change...u'll either let ur feelings grow...(if u like his ways) or the feelins will drop either way let him know ;)*best wishes* xoxo effy
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One thing that I've learned is that boys don't know what love is. They keep on searching for it their whole lives and never actually find what girls consider "love". I don't think that he's playing with you, but I don't think that he's in love with you either. He might just like like you a lot and has no other way of expressing his feelings. Give your relationship more time. It may evolve into love, but for now I don't think that it is love.
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