hi..im 14 and i still havent even had my first kiss yet. Nor even a boyfriend...ive been asked out before and i just get to nervous to respond. Also, i dont know what to do when im with a guy. Like when i liked this one dude and i sat by him on a charter bus and he was holding my hand and i just was like freaking out and i didnt know what to do...i turned around...what do i do??
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 5:34 am: Hey first off about the kiss, My close guy friend didnt get his till his junior year, also i know SO many people that havnt had a boyfriend or girlfriend. Dont get nervous around guys! theres nothing to be nervous about! Maybe get some guy friends (strickly friends) and get use to how they act and what not. Dont worry about the kissing and boyfriend stuff, the right guy will come around and you'll find yourself so comfortable around him and that you can be yourself! Just gotta wait for the right time!
-Holly-
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lovealwaysniki answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 1:04 am: just chill out.. tell him you want to start out slow.. he should understand... guys are human to sooo they should understand.. its not bad that you havent gotten your first kiss yet your just waiting for the right guy no big deal, and not having a bf can be a good thing sometimes cause having one can be very complicated and can upset you a lot and even make you cry.. a lot of girls dont even get there first bf until they get into there 2 year of highschool.. my friend who is her 3rd year hasnt had one yet.. she has been asked a million times but shes just not ready for that yet.... she likes things the way they are now.. so just think about that and dont do anything you would regret [ lovealwaysniki's advice column | Ask lovealwaysniki A Question ]
nachoxqween answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 12:26 am: It's ok that you've never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed either, and neither has my best friend. And we're 14, too! Anyways, I'd just have to say try & be comfortable around guys. True you can't act like u do around ur girlfriends, but just try to be outgoing. If a guy holds ur hand, just smile & keep holding it. [ nachoxqween's advice column | Ask nachoxqween A Question ]
TweetyWife answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 10:01 pm: Just relax and go wit the flow. When u think u like a boy and he asks u out say yes. Dont get nervous its like riding a bike. Once u get started u dont want to stop.When he holds ur hand hold his hand back. And dont worry bout the kissing do it when ur ready. [ TweetyWife's advice column | Ask TweetyWife A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 8:04 pm: well try to relax...is just a guy..u need to b more self confident :-D try to b more flirty...n try to relax...think ur better then them n u can do much better then him :) relax n just B U ;) xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
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