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I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????
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Well...the gap is pretty big right now. Your emotional (maybe physical?) maturity might not be equal, or even close! So be very careful and EVALUATE how you feel first, why you feel that way, etc.
You shouldn't have sex, you will regret it.
It's not wrong, but your relationship may be harder as a result because I'm assuming friends/family might have a problem with it.
Good luck!
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It is not wrong that you are going out. However, this is just my opinion, but I encourage you NOT to have sex with him. There are other ways to express your love. You WILL regret it later on in life. I've read all of the answers people have given you and they are all either: "its fine..you can have sex..blah, blah, blah" or "no thats nasty". I disagree with both answers and I really hope you consider mine, it is your choice. But just remember: It is extremely unlikely that you will spend the rest of your lives together. In the future (I hope its the far future! =D) when you break up, if you had sex, it makes you far much more emotionally attached and the break-up will be much harder. Also you must think about pregnancy. Even using birth control, it is possible for you to become pregnant.
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its not wrong if you love him but you'll have to have sex before he turns 18 or he can go to jail for it when hes 18! but be careful and use protection! good luck!
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No, it's not wrong at all as long as he isn't forcing u to have sex. The boy I like is 21 and I'm almost 15!!... just know that if u do have sex with him there is a possiblity he would dump u after words. I'm not saying he will but theres a chance he would.
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Well hun,
you need to think about what could happen if you do, i mean he cant FORCE you to have sex and if he does, thats rape, but do what you wanna do, if he is pressuring you into dong it and you dont want to dont do it! amd if he cant accept that hten he doesnt love you back, but if you do have sex USE A CONDOM ur 13 toy dont need a baby!
-i hope this helps-
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I dont think it wrong at all if he loves you back and he not forceing you to sleep with him than its is not wrong!
I hope i gave you the best advice!!
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no it isnt wrong my bf is 21 and im 14 so it isnt wrong if you love him
Love Ashley , ~ plz rate me ~
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*look right now it may look wrong* but remember guyz are more immature then girls* i dont know how ur parents are but just incase tell them u've met this really great guy and he is really nice to you and he doesnt pressure u like most guyz ur age would*
<3Alwayz,
*Anggie*
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no it is not wrong. if you love him! don't rush anything, your only 13! good luck with the relationship!
~*~Natalie~*~
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no its not wrong, but when he turns 18 it will be illegal and then if he touches you there is a great chance that he will go to jail!!!
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Well no its not wrong its just frowned upon! Seriously I know it may feel like love but your only 13!And even though he is nice to you and doesnt nag that might just be part of a plan to get you to fall for him so that he gets what he wants and some guys are really patient!But I might be wrong and maybe he really does love you!I just know that this kind of thing happens all the time and girls get hurt everyday.So be careful!
Hope I helped
*Lacey
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Yes it is very wrong
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Well soon enough he will be illegal to be going out with so you have to think about that but no its not wrong but its not right either-trix
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I don't think its wrong because you can't control who you fall in love with. And he seems like a great boyfriend because he doesn't pressure you into doing anything. And don't do something if you're not ready to! Remember that! And if people give you crap for it, just ignore them its not like you're sleeping around or something. He seems like he makes you happy! =D
xoxo Kourtney
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no.. thats not wrong.. ive gone out with lyk 2 guys that age and im 13... and especially if he said its all up to you.. i thynk he sounds k0ol.. and if yall love each other then age isnt a thang.. :) hope i helped..
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no! if you guys really like eachother, then age shouldnt matter! its just a number ;-)
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No!! It seems like you have a really great boyfriend! As long as he loves you *and it sounds like he does, a lot* then there is nothing wrong with the relationship!
<33 Greenlee .xo
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Age really doesn't matter, maybe to people around your age it does but when you get a little older it wouldn't matter at all, most girls like older guys anyways...
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If you need to ask a group of people with whom you have no respectable relationships, I think you honestly know that what you are asking about is wrong. Or, you could be trying to get attention by broadcasting the fact that you have a somewhat controversial relationship. Frankly, do whatever you want, it doesn’t affect me. However, a word of advice: to be more convincing, you might try asking a good friend private, moral-based questions like these, because they will most probably show much more concern.
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