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Plz read I am in need of ur advice!!
Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!
My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????
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well? you made a promise. you told your friend you wouldn't go out with him, and you need to take responsibility of it. if you tell your friend something like that, then turn around and do the exact opposite, what kind of person are you? you're only as good as your word. remember that.
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Well friends dont go out with ex boyfriends. Unless you talk to them about it. But don't just go out with him right when they break up. First talk to her about it and ask her if it would be alright. If it isn't alright with her, then who has been there longer for you, the girl or the boy? Because friends last forever boyfriends don't always last forever. So just talk to your friend first before you do anything.
xoxo Kourtney
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always put your friends first.. friendships will last a lifetime when a bf could only last 1 min. how long has she been there for you? how long has he been there for you? Friends go first.. if she get over him then ask her about it.. if she doesnt want you to dont do it...
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i think that if you talk it over with your firend a little bit after they brake up >>dont do it right after it will seem mean<< then talk with him...maybe he has feelings for u too...but he still might like your friends soo make sure he really likes you and isnt looking for rebound...XoXo hope i helped!! Sara
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well just tell her to her face you dont diserv him. And say scince you dont treat him right i will take over now. LOL thats what i would do holla back
*Diamond*
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hi,well i understand how u feel and everything...n i think that going out wit da ex of ur bestfriend would b kinda messed up but if u talk to her n tell her how u feel....and she doesnt mind...then you should tell the kid how u feel dont b scared u never know u might b surprised ;) he might feel the same way....remember its better regreating something u do then regreating something u dont do!! ;) good luck xoxo effy
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Well, my best advice is that u should tell a friend how u feel(one that won't tell NE one) and then after yur other friend breaks up with him, give them a while to get over it, then tell him how u truly feel.just say that u like him a lot but u don't want to hurt yur friend's feelings so u shouldn't get into a relationship. I hope this is good advice...tell me if it is or not... I hope it works out ok for u...gl!!!
Jamie
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First ask your friend what is going on with her and the guy, and if she tells you that she is planning on breaking up with him soon, thats when you tell her how you really feel about the guy. Tell her not to get mad or anything and that your just being completely honest with her like best friends are suppose to be. Once you do that, she will tell you what she thinks, and everything should work out to your benifit.
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I am in the same situation. If ur best friend goes out with alot of guys theni think u should wait untill she gets another one and then she wont care much if u do go out with him. She made u promise not to go out with him after they broke up bc she really liked him. But if they r broken up and she has someone else to love, then i really dont think she would care. Maybe u could try talking to her about how u really like him. Just wait untill she has another boyfriend. Before u talk to her about liking him, U should make sure he likes u back and it is worth it. bc remember, even tho u may like someone now, there r 100,000,000,000 more boys that r out there.
Good luck, ash123(plez rate me!)
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