Dude!!! wazzup!!! My name's Jamie, I'm 13.if u need advice i might be able to help...Tell me if my advice is good or bad...i wanna know...I'm really sorry if it doesn't help...I'm just doin the best i can! If u want some personal advice then email me at the adress below...thanx...rate me!!!
Jamie
E-mail: sweeetangel213@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 13
Member Since: July 2, 2004
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There's this boy I like across the street from my dad's house and I
think he is so cute and he has a wonderful personality. I'm afraid to
tell him I like him tho so I'm not going to. What I want to do is not
like him anymore. I still want to like him as a friend but nto as
anything more. If someone asks me if he's cute than I will say yea, but
I cant say I like him. So I as wondering how to stop liking him. My
sister thinks I like him some how she can tell whenevr I like some1. But
I keep on denying it cuz I dont want her to know for sure dat I like
him. Now my aunt that's 13 thinks I like him too, because I guess I
can't keep my emotions locked up they show to easily. BUt one thing I am
good at is lying. SO I can always say no I dont like him and look
serious. But I dont want to have to keep on lying so I want to just tell
the truth and say no I dont like him as more than a friend and really
mean it. I dont live with my dad tho I go over on the weekends. I just
dont want to like him anymore and I want to know how I can stop liking
him so I thought you might be able to help it's a challenge that I hope
your willing to take since ur new an all. So please pleeez help. :)
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hey hope wuzzup? ummm i'd say......just to stop thinkin about him and keep urself busy wit friends and hmwk junk....that's what i did when i like really liked this guy but he moved to florida :(.........Ne ways.....just try not to think about him and look at him much and just pretend he's an enemy but if he talks to u just don't treat him like he's an enemy(that would be rude).......hope this helps rate me!
Jamie
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I want to learn to play the violin. I own one already, two in fact. I don't have money for lessons and they aren't offered for free at school but I really want to learn. I've tried teaching myself, but in the past it hasn't worked. I've always given up without that initial drive to learn that comes with lessons. It's like I need someone forcing me to do it. My parents have never really been supportive of me learning any instrument and it's unfair that they were both given opportunities in school to play and I haven't. I want to play so badly that I cry myself to bed at night over it. But I have no way to learn. (link)
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do u have NE friends that know someone who plays violin? U should sit down and talk to your parents and tell them that u REALLY wanna play the violin but u can't cuz u don't know how...they should be supportive no matter what u do... i hope this helped...rate me!!!
Jamie
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Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music ! (link)
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i like some country music...i like the dixie chicks...just cuz u like different music than them doesn't make u wierd, u just have slightly different taste than them...hope this helped!
Jamie
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I cant decide between staying in dance (which ive been in for 11 years) ONLY, or doing sports. If I do sports I'd be doing water polo, swimming, track, and maybe the dance team at my school. I know thatd be fun too and I think thatd probly make me more popular too!!?? But also I love to dance. Im confused (link)
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u shouldn't do something if u don't like it but it makes u popular...u should do it cuz ulike it...maybe stay in dance and do 1 or 2 other sports to keep u active, but if it's too much maybe u should only do dance and 1 sport...hope this helped rate me!!!
Jamie
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ok, one of my bbf's and I are going 2 start a babysitting busniss together, because we don't think we could take care of kids alone, but together we would be perfect for the job. The thing is, we don't know what kind of advertisment a parent would get to hire a kid to babysit. so, what would parents go for?
p.s. we both took a course of red cross babysitting (link)
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maybe say something in the article that yur experienced in babysitting if u r...also that u will have plenty of help so u can be trusted...i hope this gives u an idea...rate me!!!
Jamie
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I hate my frucking friends so much they r such assholes they all go 2 north n i go 2 central but we always hung out ever since elementry school. not 2 long ago my friends all started drinking at the beginning i used 2 go with them like every weekend n stuff it was mad fun. Now all of a sudden they have been hanging out with the "cool" kids from their school that drink and the past 2 nights 2 of my friends at parties at their houses and i wasnt invited! Lately i havent been invited anywhere n its fucked up cause whenever i make plans i make sure i invite every1 but last time i forgot 2 invite joe so he made tim call me n ask if he could go and of course i said yes even tho joe never invites me anywhere... well whenever i try 2 make plans wit my friends i ask them wut they r doin n they all say they dont kno n i try makin suggestions of things we could do n they go "idk" n shit n they never tell me that they have plans already n then tim sometimes tells me like oh i think we r goin to andrews call him i guess if u wanna go but i feel stupid callin him and askin him if i can go over cause its fucked up he shoulda called me in the 1st place hes always invited when i have ppl over...idk wut 2 do my friends r so fucking gay i have more fun hangin out wit my girl friends but my guy friends dont like some of them n the girls always want me 2 bring other guys but i got no1 to bring and i can never do anything i want 2 do like tonight i wanted to go to this club but my friends all say they dont dance n shit n they never wanna go but i love goin 2 clubs n shit and i never get to go n another thing the only things my friends ever do now is play poker drink and go bowling they never do anything else like ever and like everynight all they ever wanna do is drink cause they think they r so "cool" they r too "cool" for me now i hate them but i have no1 else! (link)
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I would suggest that u either talk to them about it or u find new friends cuz obviously they've found "better" people if that's what u call drunks...I feel really bad 4 u... i hope my advice helps u...good luck!!! if u need to talk email me @sweeetangel213@sbcglobal.net
Jamie
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My best friend is acting really different because she acts black and she's not. And I mean she really acts black. ONe time she said to me " I'm really supposed to be black and look it too (meaning her skin complection) but because I have french , english, italian, and other stuff in me I came out white". That was such a lie. How could she say that. She really wishes that she was black. I like her being herself not the fony that's the only reason I became her bff because before she used to act real and be herself. I met her in 3th grade now were going to 9th grade. Ever since 5th grade she started cussin and I started cuz I dont knop but it wasn't cuz she started. Well, I need to kno what I should tell my bff like should I say stop actin that way and explain it to her I'm not sure. Help me out. signed- confused grl (link)
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well confused grl, i think u should sit her down and talk to her about her acting the way she is and that u don't like it and u like the old her.....ask her y she started acting like that in the first place...tell her that if she needs to tell u NE thing, she should... Good luck!!! rate me!
Jamie
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ok...i have this other question in here that talks about my neighbor...and being avoided and stuff...so i have been avoiding him and we havnt talked for the longest time. and i am begining to think that we arent FRIENDS anymore..am i doing the right thing? or should i stop avoiding him back and playing hard to get??
signed,.,.
clueless (link)
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Well clueless, i think u should stop avoiding him cuz if he tries to tell u y he's doing that u won't know...but one day u should go to his door and ask to speak to him...then ask him y he's avoiding u...but don't sound upset or mad , just ask " how come you've been avoiding me?"
maybe he'll tell u but maybe he'll kick u out of the house, only God knows...well good luck!!! rate my advice.
Jamie
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Sometimes I act like a boy bc I collect cards that like all the boys in my class have. I spend allot of time trading with this boy. Sometimes I think that he likes me. Should I keep on doing cards or act like a girl girl? (link)
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I think u should just keep trading cards if that is really u.....just be yourself cuz u could get into falserelationships if u don't...well gl!!!tell me if my advice was bad or not...
Jamie
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Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!
My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????
Live2luvu (link)
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Well, my best advice is that u should tell a friend how u feel(one that won't tell NE one) and then after yur other friend breaks up with him, give them a while to get over it, then tell him how u truly feel.just say that u like him a lot but u don't want to hurt yur friend's feelings so u shouldn't get into a relationship. I hope this is good advice...tell me if it is or not... I hope it works out ok for u...gl!!!
Jamie
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theres this guy that i really really really like and i think he might like me too, but the only problem is that we're like BEST FRIENDS, he's my neighbor, and we've been hanging out since we were two. i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i REALLY like him..what should i do..should i ask him out? or just deal with my feelings. (link)
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U may not want to ruin yur relationship and i don't think u will if u move things slowly...move things just a little slow and see how he deals with it... if he gets nervous around u maybe u should stop and just be friends...but if he goes along with it then try and move a little more and see how he plays along...get it? i hope this helps...tell me if it does or not...good luck!!!
Jamie
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