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ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this? (link)
ok since he is ur cousin, u shouldnt feel weird. bc u r related it is like against the law to like ur relatives in that way. so i dotn think u should feel weird bc its not like he could like u or nething. It is his deicision on how to be and i dont think he needs anyone to make him feel uncomfortable about how he is !rate me! good luck



I 14 yrs. old and i am so down lately (like the past year) and i just hate my self so much and i cut myself sometimes... and it doesnt hurt... i dont know what to do to get out of this! i feel like i have no more friends and tht everyone hates me and wants to (litterally) kill me!I've been around some drugs lately but i dont really want to try them but im so tempted. I've been taking a lot of pain killers lately... Hoping tht i might over dose or something.... i've strangled myself to where i pass out before... i dont kno if I just need some one to hear me out and understand me or what? but im hoping i can get somewhat of a reply from this...?
~Kelly~ (link)
I am not trying to judge u or make u change bc no one likes to be told what to do. Cutting wont help. ive done it b4. all it does is leave marks for ppl to see and judge u about it. if u feel the need to do it, find something else that will help stop the sucky feelings.

I dont see y everyone would hate u. r u rude to ppl? if u r then u should just be nice and tell everyone sry for the way u acted. if u rnt rude to everyone, thenmaybe those ppl just rnt 4 u. Find some new frineds. believe me there r ppl exactly like u in evey town.

Drugs wont solve problems either. they only cause more. ppl wth drugs rnt who u wanna be with. most ppl dont like ppl who r involed in drugs so that could be another reason that it seems like everyone hates u. even if u dont do them, being around them is almost just as bad.

unless u have physical pain like muscle pain, then u shouldnt be taking pain killers. y do u want to kill urself anyway. there is so much more out there to live for. some ppl just have to wait longer than others to get it.

What u need is someone to talk to.like a professional. someone who will be willing to help u get ur life back on track. U can change ur life around. I did. Better things can come to u if u r on a different track of life. try to get someone who has similar problems to get on the better track of life with u. haveing someone with u can me a tremendous help. determination for better things is what u need. i hope i do well. ~rate me and i hope i helped and didnt sound cheesy! bye


Latley loads of my boyfriends mates have been coming up to me saying hes been taking coke, but when i asks him he says, dont listen to them they are liers and that he hasn't done anything, but i dont know wether to belive him. can you help me?. (link)
you should prolly get to his face and make him look u straight in the eye. tell him that if he loves u, he wouldnt lie and the only way to make things better is to tell eachother the truth. If he gives in and he does do it, then try to help him. if he wont stop and u dont want a bf who does drugs, then the only other way is to break up.!hope i helped! *good luck* ~rate me pleez~


theres this guy that i really really really like and i think he might like me too, but the only problem is that we're like BEST FRIENDS, he's my neighbor, and we've been hanging out since we were two. i don't want to ruin our friendship, but i REALLY like him..what should i do..should i ask him out? or just deal with my feelings. (link)
No one ever wants to ruin the relationship. to find out if he likes u, ask him who he likes and of course he wont say u bc he is to shy. if he says no one then it is most definitly u. If u r stil not sure, ask one of his other good freinds. again if u dont want to ruin the relationship, make sure he likes u first otherwise u will be stuck with him being wierd about knowing how u feel. If u do go out and decide to break up, make sure u can still talk and be good friends like b4. i hope i helped good luck. ~rate me pleez~


So I have been having a hard time thinking about whether or not me and my boyfriend should *take a break* or fully *break up*.. so we were talking and he broke up with me and he said in about a week we can get together and see if we should go back out or stay apart..anyways, he already has single in his profile and I hate him not being there =( what do I do? Just wait til HE decides to get back together?... (link)
Even if u love him and u would hate not having someone there, u should know there is alot of other ppl out there. i guess if u wanna get back together with this guy then u should look for someone else incase he decides not to go back out. it wont be the end of the world if he doesnt. sometimes it is better not to give a crap about guys for a while. it is fun being single. u can check out other guys, flirt, and if u do enough of that they could like u back. good luck ~pleez rate me~


Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
ok i may not know much about marrage but i do know that when u r being hurt physically by another person u should get the cops on his ass. If he is hitting ur 2 yr old daughter that is child abuse. Put that asshole in his place and get him in jail. if u need anything else im here 4 you. good luck.


wut r sum good love songs? list as many as u can think of please!!....tHaNkS...ill repay u by givin u advice!! (link)
take my breath away~jessica simpson
truely madly deeply~savage garden


Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!


My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????

Live2luvu (link)
I am in the same situation. If ur best friend goes out with alot of guys theni think u should wait untill she gets another one and then she wont care much if u do go out with him. She made u promise not to go out with him after they broke up bc she really liked him. But if they r broken up and she has someone else to love, then i really dont think she would care. Maybe u could try talking to her about how u really like him. Just wait untill she has another boyfriend. Before u talk to her about liking him, U should make sure he likes u back and it is worth it. bc remember, even tho u may like someone now, there r 100,000,000,000 more boys that r out there.
Good luck, ash123(plez rate me!)




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