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whats wrong with me?!


Question Posted Saturday July 3 2004, 1:57 am


I 14 yrs. old and i am so down lately (like the past year) and i just hate my self so much and i cut myself sometimes... and it doesnt hurt... i dont know what to do to get out of this! i feel like i have no more friends and tht everyone hates me and wants to (litterally) kill me!I've been around some drugs lately but i dont really want to try them but im so tempted. I've been taking a lot of pain killers lately... Hoping tht i might over dose or something.... i've strangled myself to where i pass out before... i dont kno if I just need some one to hear me out and understand me or what? but im hoping i can get somewhat of a reply from this...?
~Kelly~


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xOxSoUtHSiDesHawTyxOX answered Saturday November 13 2004, 8:10 pm:
ok!!i see your an teenager an at that age we all go through different changes like trying to fit in and who like us an who doesnt but i can tell you one thing DRUGS are NEVER the awnser an try to find someone that you can talk too like a family friend or something an you seem to have low self esteem but i can tell you this never hete your self love your self for who you are i hope my advice helps!!!

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sweetjewel answered Saturday July 3 2004, 10:41 am:
NONE of that is good. does ur mom know? if not tell her so both of u can decide what 2 do.

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scorpion12100 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 8:41 am:
yes you should tell someone and try to stop doing this if you try it tell me how it works . My E-mail is Scorpion12100@aol.com

--matt--

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PinkHersheys answered Saturday July 3 2004, 3:25 am:
I think you really need to talk to your parents and tell them whats going on, they need to know what is going on in your life as much as your friends do. Sometimes you go through tough times but that doesn't mean by any cost to hurt yourself! You need help, you could be suffering from depression, and I am positive people don't want to kill you, you have to look at the silver lining in every dark cloud. Talk to your parents, talk to me, talk to friends or other people that you trust. I hope you can get things worked out and I really hope that you talk to me again. (I have cut and I did suffer from depression, I know where you are coming from!)


-Please talk to me again, I would love to help- :)

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hUrLeYgUrLeY10 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:59 am:
hey stop cutting yourself!!maybe this past year just wusnt your year...but cutting yourself? now thats a little too extreme...and u shouldnt be trying to over dose yourself...thats not healty and if u think u have nothing to live for think again...think about how your family would react if u werent there and all ur loved ones...remember..everyone has sumthing or sumone to live for...if u ever need to talk im me on AIM:hurleygurley1022 or post in my column..i wanna hear back frum u ok...hope i helped...o yea and u might wanna try talking to a counselor or a trusted adult.

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ash123 answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:29 am:
I am not trying to judge u or make u change bc no one likes to be told what to do. Cutting wont help. ive done it b4. all it does is leave marks for ppl to see and judge u about it. if u feel the need to do it, find something else that will help stop the sucky feelings.

I dont see y everyone would hate u. r u rude to ppl? if u r then u should just be nice and tell everyone sry for the way u acted. if u rnt rude to everyone, thenmaybe those ppl just rnt 4 u. Find some new frineds. believe me there r ppl exactly like u in evey town.

Drugs wont solve problems either. they only cause more. ppl wth drugs rnt who u wanna be with. most ppl dont like ppl who r involed in drugs so that could be another reason that it seems like everyone hates u. even if u dont do them, being around them is almost just as bad.

unless u have physical pain like muscle pain, then u shouldnt be taking pain killers. y do u want to kill urself anyway. there is so much more out there to live for. some ppl just have to wait longer than others to get it.

What u need is someone to talk to.like a professional. someone who will be willing to help u get ur life back on track. U can change ur life around. I did. Better things can come to u if u r on a different track of life. try to get someone who has similar problems to get on the better track of life with u. haveing someone with u can me a tremendous help. determination for better things is what u need. i hope i do well. ~rate me and i hope i helped and didnt sound cheesy! bye

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cowsoink answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:29 am:
I know how u feel. I used to be there and i even tried to kill myself with drugs and alchohol, but im better and i know how much people like me and i know that they would miss me way too much. I decided to not put me or them through that missery. Think about,dont do that to them or u.Thanx, bye!

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m1dn1gh7h3llr4z0r answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:16 am:
Damn kelly you really need to chill out you only live once and you should make it the best time of your life.Cutting your self wont take you anywhere your only four-teen you should really watch what you do if you say somthing like that to the wrong person you could get put in a mental Hospital there not very fun i was there was i was six-teen find some new people to hang out with leave the drugs alone there no good spend that money on somthing you could really need or you want besides drugs. Please

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KiSsEs answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:12 am:
Kelly, life can be very hard sometimes but u can't let bad situations controll you, you need to controll them! As for the people who don't like or accept you FORGET them. there are soOoO many good, nice and funny people out there... don't let the bad people get to you. It's good your seeking help but maybe you should talk this with your parents or discuss it with a phycatrist Stay Away from drugs they could only make things worse!
*Good Luck*
~KiSsEs~

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sexichickxoxo answered Saturday July 3 2004, 2:00 am:
okay i think maybe u should go to a therapist of try harder to help urself by talking to ur parents or someone u trust about it tat might help

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