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what should i do
ok i just asked a question about me and this boy before but i got another one ok i was over at this boy tonys house and we had sex and i dotn know what to do now because he is being ignorant to me now and i dotn know what to do!! what should i do? thankz
katie
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hun i am soo sorry to say but i dont think you can do anything about it the guy tony got what he wanted and he isnt gona be nice to you anymore he is gonna bee strange and things probably wont be the same cuz what happened im sorry to say but this is the truth!!sorry hun and hope eveerything goes ok..
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first of all u had sex wit a 12 yr old... second of all read first of all again
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*The only way to say this is he's using you. If ya'll were dating and having sex this wouldn't be a problem, but once you share with a guy your not dating he just wants to get some and then he's gone*
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Not much you could do.. sorry katie-trix
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Well that was your choice to do that. Thats why when people ask me is it ok to have sex? Im like If your ready if your completly SURE 100% SURE your ready. Because like after every person goes through Premarital sex, after they Have sex they always become all serious bout it like b4 they were thinking about it they were like yeah im ready but now this is the real thing cuz its like freakin ya out. Best bet is to go an talk to your parents tell them you made a mistake and you dont know what to do, and im sure since your being completly honest with them im completly sure they would understand, because that takes alot of guts to tell your parents. Im sure they would feel like good bout you comin to them though!
-Stephanie
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*Best Of Luck*
~Much Luv Katie~
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Well, first of all..I'm not saying it was wrong of oyu to have sex with him because that's your choice, but you and him both are pretty young to be doing that kind of stuff just yet. Based on what you have told me from the previous question and this one, it seems like Tony only wants you when he WANTS you. It seems like he just used you. If he really loved you, respected you, and cared for you he wouldn't ignore you at all especially not after y'all did something to intimate. I think you are letting this go on because you nowfeel really attached to him, which you can't entirely help that..but what you can help is who you give a chance and who you let go..you really deserve to be treated better and you deserve someone that is not going to use you for anything and then treat you like a dog (especially after sex). Obviously, you are more mature than Tony and he is just thinking with his penis and not his head or heart. I really would suggest staying away from Tony, and as hard as it may be..you need to move on and find a better guy that wants more from you than just sex....a guy that wants you so y'all can have a REAL relationship. Don't give Tony the time of day, because it doesn't seem like he gives you his. Just stay strong and keep telling yourself you are better than that and you deserve better than that. Show him a lesson that he may have done this to you but you won't let him continue it and you're not gunna tolerate it! There's lots of guys out there..if it's meant to be it will happen! Don't force it..and even if Tony talks to you a month from now and says he's changed his way you put your foot down and you call all the shots!!! :)
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