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Does he really want to be with me?!?
Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*
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ok well it sounds like he changed and he's a really sweet guy from what you said and well i would think that he's real but there's a lot of guys out there that just want girls for sex. but he's sounds like the kind of guy that wouldn't do that to you so i would go to his house! but do what you want.
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He isn't worth it. He has proved it so many times before, open up to others get a man. He is only playing with you and your feelings.
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*** GUYS NEVER CHANGE *** well theres an understatement... ne ways dont go back to him it seems like you and him arnt really sure about what you want.. but im sure if he is the one that he will wait (to not have sex) if he is really nice other wise keep your opitions open you never kno who really likes you....
JeSSiiHaLL
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ok well he must like u if its been that long but if u want to know for a fact if he likes u dont have sex with him so u dont feel used becaues if u think u r or even have to question urself thats not good...but if its been that long it must meen something cause no1 stays with someone that long for no reason...please rate
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hey i know exactly how you feel. i went threw that with my boyfriend. But it seems like you still have alot of feelings for him. I would say go ahead and go over his house. Just dont do anything that youll feel sorry for in the morning. Just follow your heart and it will tell you what to do. Talk to him and tell you how you feel. Cuz that can make you feel a hole lot better. Tell him how much you love him. And tell him how you feel when your not with him. Tell him that oyu want to be with him but not just for sex. and see how it goes. i hope i helped you alot. but ive been threw that and ive been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and everything is smooth. i really hoped i help! I/m [aim] miSSxundaxzt00d - <3 Nicicole
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Well, your history doesn't seem to be too good. You need to wait a bit longer. You need to be sure that you can trust him completely, before you do anything you'd regret. It seems like he's using you because of how he did in the past. You need to to know that he loves you enough not to use you again. You say that he's changed, and if he has, don't start a realtionship too soon, or it won't last. Hope it works out for you!
Hope I could help!
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so ur saying he cheated on u what twice same thing happened to my sis (diffrent ages though) but yeah if ur goin to school wit him ahng out wit him go to parts withim but dont date him for at least the first month and then if it seems like the only girl he really wants is u go for it but watch ur self before u do check wit his friends who does he like stuff like that BUT DONT DO THAT when ur dating casue then he'll thin u dont trust him just watch it
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I think you should see him but don't do anything you'll regret. Just remember to have fun, that's the most important thing to remember! Latas!
.::Chelsea::.
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Just stay friends with him for awhile. (not friends with benefits mind you..) You will know if its right or not. Most guys dont change though if they carry that playerish behavior. Good luck.
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Well if u think that it could work out go for it u never know..but if i turns out bad then thats just one guy no biggy** hope i helped..
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first off..no guy ever changes for anyone...guys r pigs...plan n simple...most likely u will date again n break up and it will be that way all through high school cuz u wont know how to stop likin him...ya needa get over him..if u dont want him to hurt u...otherwise u might as well just give him ur heart now and let him break it
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