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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me? (link)
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Aww, love, I know how you feel. I'm just like that. And it is annoying, it really is. But the people you are friends with love you, otherwise they wouldn't stay with you if they thought what you thought of yourself. I also resorted to cutting, and as I'm so bad at hiding things, my mum found out and such. But anywho, don't let any one call you a bad person, or ugly or anything of the sort, because its obviously not true. If you think that someone won't go out with you because of how you look, they're obviously not worth it, because they didn't take time to get to know the real you. You'll meet someone when the time is right.
I would really appreciate if you maybe messaged me, so I could talk about this with you further. I'd really like to help. (please)
-daka
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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv* (link)
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Well, your history doesn't seem to be too good. You need to wait a bit longer. You need to be sure that you can trust him completely, before you do anything you'd regret. It seems like he's using you because of how he did in the past. You need to to know that he loves you enough not to use you again. You say that he's changed, and if he has, don't start a realtionship too soon, or it won't last. Hope it works out for you!
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im 14... and i dont really have a lot of gurlfriends, i from a family with 9 boys.. im the only gurl, anywho... Well i play the guitar in this band i'm in and i have the biggest crush on the singer *Brandon he is like the ultimate guy, we hang out all the time.. he calls me and stuff were really close!! and i just cant seem to find the right time to tell him, or anything and i have NO idea what to do cuz he's like my best friend... ya know!! i just really like him a lot and dont wanna blow my chance, or plussss do you think i should even tell him??? pleaseee help me i am sooo confusedd!! please ILL RATE!
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Well, if you would like your relationship to go further maybe you should tell them. If you are very close, there is a chance he might like you to. You should ask him if he thinks that you 2 could ever become anything more than friends, just ask him casually. If he says yes, ask him about how he feels about you, or tell him. Otherwise, just wait a little while and tell him later. I hope everything works out for you!
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I went to a rock festival called soulfest in NH it was thursday through sunday.on friday me n my frend beckah was asked if we wanted to go on the ski lifts with this kid jason then we all went bak inline to go on them agian n beckah was like i want to go with jason you can go alone well i strted goin on n jason was like i wanna go with you so he went wit me n left beckah alone we didnt really talk he just stared at me my frend went on them with jasons frend jon n we hung out qwith jon all day then sunday we all hung out agian in this train thing n jason kept like strein at me frum the toher side of the trian sum ppl told me i loed like his ex-gf n thats why he kept lookin at me others said i didnt well after sum concert he said i was pretty n i asked him if he was gunna cum to sum cafe thing lada he said yah so we hung out n got a little close n then beckahs dad freaked out cuz we wer late so i never got to give him my number i never got his picture n i kno he dont have an email but wen he looked at me it was like a deep look like no ones ever looked at me like that b4 i like felt nervous wen i looked at him but we live in diff states i do you think he liked me n wat should i do???
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Well, you'll probably meet again, especially if he liked you. You could try looking him up. Otherwise, all you can do is hope for the best. Its sounds like he does like you, though. I hope I could be of help and that everything works out for the best!
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