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What should i do?


Question Posted Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:38 pm

im 14... and i dont really have a lot of gurlfriends, i from a family with 9 boys.. im the only gurl, anywho... Well i play the guitar in this band i'm in and i have the biggest crush on the singer *Brandon he is like the ultimate guy, we hang out all the time.. he calls me and stuff were really close!! and i just cant seem to find the right time to tell him, or anything and i have NO idea what to do cuz he's like my best friend... ya know!! i just really like him a lot and dont wanna blow my chance, or plussss do you think i should even tell him??? pleaseee help me i am sooo confusedd!! please ILL RATE!

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j_henk13 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:34 am:
Just tell him. Dont try to plan out when and where cause nothing is ever perfect and goes exactlly how you planned. Just do it when you have the courage and it feels right.

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Thickbabyie4u answered Thursday August 5 2004, 12:11 am:
TELL HIM!, TELL HIM!, TELL HIM!! If you really think about it, what's the worse that can happen? ... I know it's hard but when you let it out, if feels like a heavy burden comming off your chest. If he says no, his loss, but at least he will know the fact you did like him, and later, he might see somthing in you, and if somthing was meant to happen, it could happen now or possibly later. You jux never know, and he'll never know if you don't tell him! Well hope this helped! God Bless and GOOD LUCK! ;) Beebyes ~1ne~

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sLoShIn2SwEeTiE answered Thursday August 5 2004, 12:02 am:
hey u can not have many gurlfriends and like wit mostly gurls the only guy in my house is my dad (poor him) but yeah i guess its kinda mine and my sis's fault that they dont like ether of us cause of just stupid stuff like where i live and what i do but i have a close group of friends of girls and the rest is guys so i know how u feel ive had the same thing where ther a good friend and u like them i told him and it was good for me but im not sure u should just really whatch the way he acts around not jsut when you alone but with other people to and if he trys to find ways to touch u like push u or sumthin like that and if u feel like u need to tell him tell him and u should care about havin a lot of girlfriends

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shoebox answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 11:58 pm:
Well, if you would like your relationship to go further maybe you should tell them. If you are very close, there is a chance he might like you to. You should ask him if he thinks that you 2 could ever become anything more than friends, just ask him casually. If he says yes, ask him about how he feels about you, or tell him. Otherwise, just wait a little while and tell him later. I hope everything works out for you!

Hope I could help!

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TheKnightOwl answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 11:14 pm:
Well, I may not be a girl, but I can help. Best way is to invite him over to your house one weekend. Tell him you want his advice on something. Then, you have to get up the nerve to let him know, its hard I know, I've faced this situation myself. You have to realize he may say no, but if that's a risk you're willing to take then go for it. But, think long and hard about this, because if you're as close as you say you are, and he says no, or he says yes and you break up, then things will change and you may lose a really close friend. Good luck.

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lilprpchick07 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 11:11 pm:
hey girl! i have had the same problem almost lol the best thing would be to tell him of course but it is always easier said than done. but if u never tell him you will always wonder what if! you understand! well a good way to tell him is keep him on the phone late and try to get him to talk about his love life then casually ask him if he would ever concider dating you, no matter what he says let him know that it is alright he can be honest and let him know how u feel if you let him know how u feel first he would probably be more comfortable about it. Then again there is always the option of getting a friend to ask about it for u but it is better to hear it first hand. sometimes the results are bad and sometimes the results are good just live a little and see what happens. If it affects the relationship you two already have then he was never a good friend anyways lol ok hope i was some help.
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BeezKneez answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:55 pm:
It wouldn't hurt 2 tell him u like him. The worst thing he could do is say, "let's just be friends," and since u are already good friends it would still be awesome. If u wanna tell him ur feelings then try telling him sumtime when ur on the phone 2gether or 1 of the times that ur hanging out 2gether. Or if u don't wanna tell him in person, write him a note, that way u can say everything u wanna say and make sure it sounds right. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes! :)

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MissJ1414 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:52 pm:
Well I don't think that it would mess up yalls friendship. i think you should just be up front with him and tell him. How about you ask him to go catch a bite to eat with you and you tell him there.

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angita answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:50 pm:
well if u think he kinda has a thing for u then yea.. y not! go ahead n tell him.. i meen ull never noe if sumthing could have happened or not! but remember u guys r friends n u r in a band together n things could get wierd.. think about wat u want n if ur willing to risk it then go 4 it!.. xoxo angie gud luk

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katney_08 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:49 pm:
I think you should tell him you like him..its seems you all are very close ..you never know he might even like you..too..hope i helped

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