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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
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well...right now u and him r "friends wit benefits!"...yes it duz seem liek u r leadin him on..i think u shouldnt be kissing on him..if u dont want a relationship!..kuz maybe he thinks that u kiss him bkuz u like him..nd u wanna go 2 another level!
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I think that there's nothing wrong with having a little fun. BUT, you owe it to this guy and to yourself to make sure that he knows what you're thinking. If you plan to continue having innocent fun make sure he knows that you are only in it for the fun. If you don't, somebody could end up hurt.
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If you're not intending to build a relationship with this guy,then you really need to break it off. You're leading him on and you have to ask yourself how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Why don't you want a relationship? It sounds like you like him,he likes you, what else do ya need? But you could also ask him what he expects out of your relationship and if he says making out is fine with him and you both mutually agree that you don't want a relationship,then that's ok. As long as you two are on the same page.
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You don't want a relatonship so I suggest that you stop doing what you are doing. You guys can still be friends and kiss each other as long as he knows you guys are just friends because you don't want to lead him on and get him hurt. Hope it all works out!!
**[Ania]**
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well if you feel like its leading him on then you should stop. Since you don't exactly have feelings for him. And he might be gaining feelings for you. But you should follow your instincs. And see what happends.
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i think that if u don't want a relationship- but u still like him, u shood wait and hold off until u think u r ready. Just stay frends 4 awhile. hope i cood help!
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you might wanna find out why you like kissing him and if u dont want a relationship i would lead him along to far but just keep hanging out wit him if u relize u do then ask him out if u relize u dont jsut stop kissing and do more talkin u dont have to kiss to be friends
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tell him you dont really want a relationship and that you just want to be friends...
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Sweetie, don't confuse the guy. Guys usually tend to that that by kissing him all of the time or flirting you want him. And by doing that and not saying you want a relationship might kill him because he might start developing a crush on you. If you know how what it's like to want a relationship with a guy, but he doesn't want one or like you that's a tough thing to go through. So why put someone else in that position? Just continue being friends with him, and cut down on the kissing! I'm sure he would appreciate that more than having his heart crushed! I know you don't mean anything by it, but he might think that you do. Don't lead him into believing in something that's not there. Good luck! Love Always, Mandee
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He may feel the same way. Like, the whole kissing thing, but no relationship. Because I mean he hasn't said anything about him liking you or wanting to hook up. BUT, just to be on the safe side, I would try talking to him and telling him whats up. Just be like "I'm sorry if I'm leading you on, I'm not trying to, I mean I know that we kiss and stuff, but I dont want a relationship, and if you like me, then I'll stop kissing you because I don't want to lead you on." Just say something like that and find out whats up and everything. Hope this helps and good luck! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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