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Friends or more?!?1
There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.
I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks
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Tell him how you feel and don't worry about screwing up the friendship. He probably suspects already anyway. I could tell you more about the mixed signals if I knew what they were. If a guy laughs a lot with you,wants to rub your back,likes to be close to you,takes you to a scary movie so you'll be closer to him,looks deep into your eyes,those are a few signs. Just tell him ok?
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well i dont know what signs you should look for cuz all guys are not the same with that some are most thouchy even if they dont like you!! they are weird like that! but i mean just take the leep i mean it might come out bad but ur still young and i mean maybe he likes u too! just no matter what happens try to stay friends!! hope i helped xoxo Sara
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I think you should tell him straight out, it sounds like you really like him.. just tell him "if you're not intrested or if you are, it's not going to change our friendship, ur still gonna be my best friend" Flirting is a good signal and it seems that he already does that. i think you should go for it.. this is a quote i like from a movie and i think it fits for this.. "if you want big rewards, you've gotta take big risks." .. good luck with everything hun!!
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Okay well, bring it up in a convo. like your jokin or something, and just see how he responds to it. OR if you want to be serious with him, Just tell him,but apparently you dont want to lose the friendship Also for some signals to be lookin for physical contact on you, and how he responds when your hangin out with other guys.
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I think you should tell him. I'm sure it wouldn't ruin the friendship because in order to be friends ya'll have to like each other. Tell him how you feel trust me he will listen.
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If you like him so much you need advice because of him, then you have to tell him. The fact that he's your best friend is a sign that he likes you. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, I doubt you'll lose your friendship.
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lol i know wut ur going through and its tough to be so close to somebody and then fall for them. i told him once like a couple of months ago and he understood cuz he always tries to get who i like out of me so i told him. he sed ok. so since u guys r such good friends i bet he'll understand. but if u tell him afterwards tell him that u dont want things to change. it worked with me. idk exactly wut signals for u to look for but i already know that the my guy(lol) already thinks im hott but we r still friends. ask him questions if u want. i mean u sed u already know everything about him. but dont do anything stupid cuz a friendship like that isnt easy to find....belive me......i hope i helped...please rate me.....:)
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well i cant really help you.. i was in that position and then i saw muh friend manda go thro it and she ended up pickin a guy over her boyfriend who was also her best friend and hurt her best friend really bad.. that same guy is my best friend.. and i <3 him to death and when i liked him i kinda said screw it becuz there was nothing more important than him! soo if he likes you.. he flirts.. hope i helped im sorry if i didnt
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