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What should i tell him?
Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him??
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Just because it's summer doesn't mean you have to forget your feelings for him. Your being selfish. But since you don't like him that much anymore, just break it up with him.
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well i think your rite, i mean i have a serious relationship wit my guy, but most gurls our age don't want serious, tell him kind of wut u told us, explain how u feel, but instead of totally breaking up, say that u can both see other people, but u still see each other, like go out on dates but not be boyfriend and gurlfriend, tell him that your young, and u wanna spend ur summer like a normal teenage girl!!
maybe he'll understand, sratch that HOPEFULLY he'll understand!
Hope This Helped, remeber im just givin an opinion u don't hafta take my advice!!
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Well you gotta think ahead to... cuz when summer is over are you going to regret dumping him? But if you think you should take a break take a break then do what you think you should do but just keep him in mind too-trix
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You can have that kinda fun with him! When summers all over then you might wana go back out with him and regret finishin him in the summer
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okay well if u knew that u wasnt ready for that realationship, u should of never said yes to him, b4 u do anything u need to think twice b4 u do it, so u got to think really hard..if u really like him stay with him,
ps:u need 2 watch out for them boys at the beach they can be jerks..so its good 2 think it over, mayb he can be the one..Good lUck
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I think you're exactly right. At 14,you're too young for a serious relationship,especially during summer at the beach. Tell this guy you'd like to go out with him some,but make it clear that you both should see other people too. Tell him just what you told me,that you don't want anything serious right now. He'll ger over it.
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well if you say "yes" to a person you gotta make sure youre prepared and that youre gonna stick with him. if you meet other guys and styll wanna go out with him just be their friend. if you wanna break up with him and meet other guys....wait tho what are tha other guys for if you dont want a serious relationship?....you gonna hook up with one and meet another?...:/ if you wanna dump him go ahead...im sayin you can meet guys and styll have him as your b/f and yeah seasons change but w/e one it is shouldnt matter as long as your w/ him....its all about tryin to stick with him and the comitment you made when you sed "yes"
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Tell him your not real sure right now about settling on one guy. So basically tell him you want a break.
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i think u should say what u told us to him...tell him that u just wnt ur summer N dont want to hurt him and if its alright nd if everyone has the same feelings when school starts up again things could be tryed again....just give him time to understand N take it cuz idk how he will!! hope i helped!! XoXO Sara
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Tell him exactly what you just told me here. Tell him that you do like him but you don't wanna go out during the summer cuz you just wanna live it up! He might take it a lil hard but if it's what you wanna do thats all that matters! Cuz if you stay with him and like hook up with some other boy during the summer.. that will hurt him more than just telling him you wanna break up now! RaTe Me PlZ!
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