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umm...im clueless?
im 14 and well ppl always tells me im pretty...but yet no one likes me...i mean if im so pretty why doesn't n e one like me? i mean i don't get it...and i have friends...so it must mean im not awful or weird...i think im nice...plzz help! i just really really dont get it....so could you help me please!?
~Melissa
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alright. it's something that happens to everyone. for somepeople about 2 a day. and its called a crush. plenty of guys may have crushes on you... but you don't know. don't feel bad or anything.
in fact... if you're ever feeling up to it... tell YOUR crush how you feel about him, and see what he answers back! you may be surprised.
~accolade~
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So no one likes you. Big deal. It's not the end of the world, but if you're determined to figure out why, ask someone. Ask someone who doesn't hang out with you a lot, and who will give you an honest answer. I used to think I was super nice, until my bf broke up with me, and I asked his friend why. He said, "He thinks you're too mean to him, and you always say mean things.". So ask someone like that. And once they give you your answer, work on the things they said were negative.
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Well for a moment I thought you one of my friends melissa, but this asked like 11:00 pm and so I guess you arnt her. (Winks)
I feel this way some times but I always end up getting over it. I only have really one friend that I can feel I can tell anything too but the others would love to break me down and say hurtful things so just keep my mouth shut.
What I have done is except myself. I like who I am and I don't care what others think. If you think your nive then thats good. I think that you should just try to do things that make you feel good about your self. Get away form the computer, don't check your e-amil s much. get out of the house and enjoy the summer. Even if you can't leave your yard turn on the sprinkler and put your towel on the grass turn the water on and lay in the sun with the sprinkler on you. You get a nice tan, you can chekc out some of the cute guys that pass by and you also can start thinking mREALLY postive things about yourself. Trust me it works. Just stay away form anything that makes you feel bad.
If you keep a jurnal look at the past times you ahve writen and see where you were feeling your worst and why.
Hope I helped
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat
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maybe some people do and just arnt admitting it ;) lol someone'll prolly does and you'll find out later on just wait you cant MAKE ppl lyke you so wait and see what happens
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melissa you are 14 you have you whole life infront of you and you don't need a man right now. but you might be so cool that they want you as friends and nothing more. I know how it is. but trust me you don't need a man at all! live you life hunny. hope this works good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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Calm down... youa r eonly 14.. you don;t need to be worrying about boyfriends and stuf...
Typically at your age (or any age for that matter) guys are shy about asking thigs sto girl especially girls tehy like. Chances are that you are a pretty girl... maybe guys are just scared.. often times guys are also intimidated by pretty girls... have u ever gotten teh feeling that a guy was too good for you? well guys get that feeling too!
Just relax and be yourself and eventually you will find the right guy for you too..
Hope i helped please rate me!!
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