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so far i've nly been fingered a few times... but i'm usaulyl really nervous when it comes to it.. i'm jsut thinking of basically him sticking his finger there and everything i dont want to be nervous but sometimes i can't help it. what can i dO?
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nervousness is normal and also might be a sign that you are not ready to take things to the next level dont let guys rush your shure fingering can feel good but their are other ways like just touching that can be less stressful until your ready .. however if you are ready to have sex after you do fignering wont be as nerve racking what ever you choose good luck .. but if you want to go on bein fingered just take a deep breath and remember if hes not nervous about it.. you shouldnt be ither just relax and enjoy! just remember b/4 he starts how good its going to feel another thing you might be gettin nervous feeling mixed with excitment mabey you just gettin excited !
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well my first suggestion would be like everyone else said make sure u are cool with it before he starts but i noticed one person said that u should tell them no if u not as a guy i am makeing the suggestion u dont just plain flat out tell them no just kinda keep there hands off and if they persist then tell them know i it has happened to me before and it's kinda a slap in the face if u just like from the start are like no! cause some guys that might piss them off if they aren't just gettin with u to get some well thats just some advice from a guys point of veiw u want some more advice from a guy my aim s/n is "marrero12"
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I dont know how it would actually feel to be fingered. I think I would be really un comfortable, its crazy If your really uncomfortable with it then mayb you should wait until your readdi. But if you are ready then just start kissin him while he is ficngerin you!
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If you get too nervous maybe it shouldnt happen. Tell him to wait til you get comfortable.
Or you can start kissing him. Lol sounds strange?
With me I would juss start kissing him, and then there would be no problem.
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sweetie then why r u doin it if ur not totally cool w/ it DONT do it
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theres nothing to do..yea i wouild b nervous to..bc like what if all a sudden u fart! =0!! hahaha..or like what if he puts his hole hand up there and u start to bleed...omg doesnt it hurt!!! ok now here is the advice...if ur nervous about it then dun do it..ur body is tellin u that u arent ready for it..wait to do this stuff with sum1 u realli reali love..this way ur not used and obused..and always remember..if ur feelin pressured by sum1 to do sumthin with UR body and u dun wanna..and theere ur bf...and u say no..they dun truly love u and u should leave then..
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If it makes you so nervous, why are you letting him do it hon?
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