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I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?
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...you're 13.
If you're asking these questions, then you shouldn't be having sex.
It is NEVER wrong to have morals, self-control, and self-respect.
It is NEVER wrong to be a virgin.
I haven't had my first kiss. I know that when I do, it will mean so much more because I will have waited.
I have a best friend who played to sex/hookup card, and I don't think anyone really takes her seriously. Is that what you want?
You have your whole life ahead of you. You're 13. Please wait to have sex.
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me and you are oposites... from where i am EVERYON is a viginnn. .and one guy pressered me into sex. sooo i had sex. yes and now im a whore. DONT HAVE sexx please =[ your fine
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It's not wrong. You have control. Be proud you don't /whore/ yourself around. [Especially 11 year olds?!]
And well, people can lie too. They probably are virgins and just hear stuff, spread it around. I don't see why they would think it's cool though.
There's so many things to think about with sex. Birth control, other protection, STDs, getting checked out for STDS, you have to know when you're going to have your period.
Bah, and they are probably aren't as healthly as you think.
Losing your virginity is something special. The young teens are just throwing that away.
Keep it for that special someone :]
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ofcourse it ISNT.Theyre the ones that are wrong for NOT being virgins when they are so young.They will get STD's(sexually transmitted diseases) early and might even for girls...might get pregnant!Before you have sex with ANYONE you need to be mature and old enough,and think about the following questions...
1)will i regret this in the future?
2)WHO has the person im about to have sex with done it with(because if hes done it before to a girl,she could have done it with other guys and these guys done it with other girls and that way you will get STD's for SURE
3)Am i being used for sex or does he really like me?
I think its perfectly fine for you to be a virgin your age...so WHAT im a 15 and a half year old virgin girl and im glad im keeping off all thoughs diseases!!
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There is completely nothing wrong with being a virgin, your free to lose your virginity whenever you want to, and maybe you just haven't met the guy that you would like to do it with him. Besides, you shouldn't care what other people think about you, because you are most definitely not a freak or weird just because you are a virgin. So have some self confidence in yourself, and dont listen to others, but just do what you want to do and feel comfortable with.
Goodluck:) and if you need any other help,then please be free to contact me.
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There is Nothing wrong with being a virgin. It shouldn't be treated like a game, or a popularity contest. You should wait until YOU are ready, and until you've found the right person.
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Absolutely not! It is never wrong to be a virgin because Whoever is just hasn't chosen to give that most wonderful part of themself away yet. Never settle for 'normal' if it is against what you believe. Do what you feel is right.
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it is not wrong to be a virgin at 13 i am a 15/f and i am still a virgin i have had plenty of chances to have sex but i didn't and you know what i havent even made out with a guy yet i think that is wrong lol i mean come on it is good you are a virgin right now and i am planning on losing my virginity soon i mean i am 15 and i think i am ready but not for a few months you are 13 and probley not fully grown i mean you probley just started pubirty or just got into talking alot about sex well if you need anymore advice on sex just ask me i will be here to answer well
i hope i helped
jessica
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No grrrrrl it aint wrong u just holdin it 4 the right person
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NO NO NO NO NO!
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin
most of my friends have had sex, but me and my 2 best friends are still virgins
some people look down on us
others wish they were like us
it is YOUR choice when to have sex
NEVER do it to just do it
NEVER do it just because everyone else is
and NEVER do it just so you can be cool in fit it.
I find it odd that people are losing it at 11, i certianly know people that lost it that early, but not many.
A lot of people are probally just all talk.
I hope i helped, and if you need ANYTHING else, feel free to ask.
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THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG W/ BEING A VIRGIN!!!! I'm 13 and where I live girls are called whores for having sex with a guy! They are looked down upon and people tend to dislike them very much. Virginity is yours and once it's gone u can't get it back. It's your pride. Respect yourself and don't give it up until you love the person and they've earned it.
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deff. not. they are stupid for not waitin for the right time.. its good to wait til you know its right time. and 13 is kinda young and so is 11. dont feel weird you deff. arent
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deffinatly not... if you have sex just because it seems like everyone else has.. you will probably reget it... dont do it until you are ready... everyone else is weird... sex at 11 do you even start puberty that young?? no for sure... ur not the weird ones by being a virgin.. if anything you are more so the normal ones...
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There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin .. especially if your only 13 .. if you have sex at that young of an age .. then you can seriously mess up how everything works in the long run .. think about it
Hope I Helped
<3 Dakota
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hey, being a virgin isnt weird. im a virgin and im 13 female. other people might think it is because they arent. but when they have diseases and you dont they will be sorry.
-caitt<3
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hey um no nothing is wrong with being a virgin
i'm a virgin, and i perfectly happy.
Just because everybody eles isnt a virgin
doesnt mean you have to loose it.Loosing yr virginity is a personal option.
hope i helped
- Alex
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i definitely don't think it is weird. in fact i am very proud of you for being a virgin while others around you aren't. having sex at 11 is WAYYYY too young. and even 13 is too young. i don't think you should even start thinking about having sex until about 16. if people think you are weird just ignore them, because i'm sure many of them regret not being a virgin and are just jealous :]
STAY STRONG <3
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If you were 30 I'd be giving you the same advice dear: There is nothing wrong or right about being a virgin at any age, it's just a state of being, like being a brunette or a Jets fan.
Don't gauge your sexual experience by the people around you. When it comes to sex, we are all on our own path, and we are all always learning. You are not missing anything that you won’t enjoy just as much, and likely even more, for waiting.
So no, it’s not weird. What is weird is all your friends happily opening themselves up to the stress, heartache and tears that comes from a sexual relationship when they could just eat Oreos until they are sick.
Take it from a girl with enough sexual experience to make her momma cry: If anyone ever offers you Oreos or sex, take the oreos.
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i am f/14 and no it's not wrong b/c i am savin my virginity to someone who i think is the right one save it for the special someone
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you know 11 year olds that aren't virgins!?!?! DANG!
and heck no. there is NOTHING wrong at all with being a virgin.
just ignore the people who think you guys are weird. they suck.
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I don't think so. Your virginity is a precious thing for you. once that is gone you can never get that back. Not being a virgin is not ganna make you any different of a person then you are now. If you are proud of who you are there is no need to have sex. I have kids although i love them and would not trade then for the world I would have done things differently. You have to think of the consiquences of your actions. Sure you wanna be like every one else. But Can you deal with getting a disease or having a child at your age. Those are possibilities with protection or not they do happen. You should be proud that you still are. There is no benefit to having sex. There can be regrett. Sex is for two mature people who love eachother, I am not going to give you a speach about being married that would make me a hippocrit and i don't neccasarily beleive that you have to. But i do believe it is an experience for those that are in love. I am proud to say that i was in love with the man that i had sex with. We also waited a long time before we did. I believe that you never know if you are love until you spend the four seasons with the man that you are with and understand his beliefs and feelings about the complex things in life. Gratefully I am still with the same man today 9 years later. That doesnt happen very often and it is very lucky for those that do. But don't just go have sex in spite of what others say. It is not about them . It is not thier body and thier mind. It's yours and only you by yourself should make that decision. It should be for your and the man your doing it with. Not any one else to hell with what they say. Are they truly proud if themselves and when will they regrett what they did?
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No, I don't think it's wrong. if anything, it's responsible. <3
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oh goodness hunny;; not at all! theres ntohing wrong with being a virgin;; i think it's weird that people aren't virgins at the age of 11-15 wow. crazy
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I don't think it's wrong to be a virgin, but ultimately it's up to you to decide- do you think it's wrong? My question to you is why would being a virgin be wrong? I know you've probably heard this a lot, but what the majority of people do, isn't always the right thing to do. There's nothing wrong with you or your friends, don't let anybody get you to think there is because where I live, the majority of people probably haven't had sex, but I know that a lot of them wish they had. That probably doesn't make any sense, but there isn't anything wrong with being different by being a virgin. Hope I helped :)
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No, there is nothing wrong by being virgin...
It's something that is unique...
Well honey, you don't always have to follow the flow... people around you do, though they don't actually have to... Nothing is wrong to be virgin. Nothing at all.
It's just about time. You'll have your own time, and it doesn't have to be now.
And anyway, that will make you the special one... because you're one diamond among the rocks...
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It's never wrong to be a virgin. In fact, 1 in 4 people who have sex end up having a baby. And 1 in 6 end up getting STDs. Also, don't think being a virgin isn't 'cool'. You would rather be a virgin, get married, and have sex with someone you love deeply and you will stay with them, than having sex now and later regretting it. And I will proudly admit that I am a virgin and I am 16 years old. It doesn't matter to me at all. Although sometimes I get the pressure to have sex, I choose not to because it's rarely ever worth it. However you can always try aternative methods of sex like dry sex (which is just rubbing against each other, not doing the "real" thing) or you can stay abstinent from sex. Don't worry about what other people think. Be proud you are a virgin, and you should know in a lot of cases, if young people do have sex they can wind up getting STDs or getting pregnant. Just think about the consequences. It's better to be a virgin than to be at some significant risk of becoming pregnant, right?
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It is definitely not wrong. First of all 13 is somewhat young and 11 is an extremely young age. In fact that's the youngest age I've heard of where it wasn't rape. Don't be ashamed that your still a virgin. Also, I reccommend the movie, "The 40-Year-Old Virgin." Although it is funny, it has a good message.
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im 15 and im a guy turning 16 soon i have been faced many time to where i could have sex i feel that it is more challenging to be a virgin these days than our parents know but believe me being a virgin is also good no one has experinced you yet and when you get married you get to experience it with a person you love because you both will learn trust me ive been called many things and made fun of for being a virgin but u know what i think its great because knowing that one day you will be able to experince something so great with a person you love and spend the rest of your life with i have learned to not believe in premarital sex because marriage is a big thing and to have sex with someone you know will probably wont be there for you is not smart and plus a guy like me respects a girl more if she is a virgin
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not at all
Your virginity is the one thing that you should wait to loose. It's like telling a boy "I don't think there's anyone I could love more out there besides you"
You're too young to loose your virginity.
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