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my friend is alwayyss flirting with my boyfriends or ex-boyfriends. she even sleeps with them and it makes me soo mad. how can i overcome this feeling or deal with this problem? (link)
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Maybe your friend has a problem... I mean, with her mind... Looks like she wants to have what you have... to feel what you feel... and that is kinda scary... or is she trying to say that she can get what you get? I still don't understand what she's trying to do...
Oh yes, honey, she is selfish for doing that to you!! She shouldn't have! I mean, there is no such thing as a real friend to do this to her own friend...that is just too selfish... and she doesn't even think about your feelings,,,
Have you ever told her about your feelings? Because she really needs to know about this... she can't keep doing these stuffs... it's killing you... and the boys, they shouldn't have done it with her either!!
But it's okay... everything will be alright...
You'll get her back someday...
Wish you always the best luck
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I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin? (link)
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No, there is nothing wrong by being virgin...
It's something that is unique...
Well honey, you don't always have to follow the flow... people around you do, though they don't actually have to... Nothing is wrong to be virgin. Nothing at all.
It's just about time. You'll have your own time, and it doesn't have to be now.
And anyway, that will make you the special one... because you're one diamond among the rocks...
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Ok so, I've been dating my brother's friend Mike who lives in a diff. state for almost 3 months now, and we didn't tell my brother or my parents. But, my parent's found my Myspace and everything about Mike in it. They flipped out and my brother found out and got really mad. And if this one just a random relationship I would have just ended it .. but I really do love him, and I cannot live without him. I'm pretty sure I should just stay with him. but I don't know. so could you help?!? =) (link)
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Well, I think your parents and your brother just got really shocked.. I mean, they didn't know about it, and suddenly it got on their faces at once.
Just try to give yourself and your boyfriend some space... and for your parents and brother too. Maybe your brother is mad because neither one of you and your bf told him anything about your relationship... so now calm down and relax... I know how it feels... It feels horrible and I can't lie about it.
Tell your parents that you really like this guy. And tell them that you will never let anything like this to happen again, that will lighten their feelings up a bit...
I wish I've helped... I really hope I have...
Wish you always the best luck.
Hope you won't have to leave him... you have your own right to be with someone that you love...
Sincerely yours,
Vin
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i know not another stupid boyfroend prob. but sorry it is. well you see my boyfriend is going to see his dad and he is leaving june 2. and i am really upset about that he came over today and asked if i we should take a break while he's gone. i told him he saying that so he can get laid while he's gone without feeling gulit.but thank god as soon as i said that my friend interupted so advice plez what should i do. (link)
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Well, sometimes, when you love someone, you need to let him go. I think maybe he really needs to have his own time with his dad... I mean, they've been away for long... He just doesn't want to feel sad about leaving you and it will make him think about you even more... He will surely miss you, but he doesn't really want you to wait on him either...
^_^ You really don't want him to leave you.. I can see that... but just for once, if you think that will make him happy, why not give it a try? He doesn't want to leave you either...
I hope I've helped... I really hope I have
Don't worry, everything will be alright.
Wish you always the best luck...
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What should i do I hate being single? (link)
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Well, then get a mate for yourself. Yes, it is boring to be a single... ^_^ So if you want to over it, just get a mate and start going out. Maybe you should ask someone who is close to you out.
I hope I've helped. I really hope I have
Wish you the best luck. Good luck!
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Okay, well. The boyfriend I have now, he picked me (as in, he asked me out) and well the first times a said no and maybe but then after a while a said yes.
I started liking him. But after a while, I realized he's not perfect. And sometimes I'm feeling great about being with him, and sometimes i'm not. I'm having my doubts.
And I think I want someone else, but i don't know. Cause what if there really isn't anyone better? and he doesn't get back with me. helpp? (link)
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Well, at least you have feelings for him...
You are struggling whether you really like him or not... and whether he is the right guy or not...
Now, one thing you have to check first... Can you see yourself with him together? What do you see?
There is a reason that you don't even know about... something that is holding you back slowly... Just follow what you think is right..
No one is perfect... including yourself... that's why you're doubting your relationship with him...
Don't think about it too much... Relax, and take a deep breath...
I hope I've helped... I really hope I have
Wish you always the best luck
Hope you're gonna find out soon! I know you will
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HEY. I'm kind of confused. This girl yesterday was calling me wanting me to come over to her house. Now she don't want nothing to do with me. I thought she was a friend. Stupid me to ever think I could have friends. Anyway, my question here is shoud I call her and see whats up or let her call me? (link)
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I think you should call her and ask what's up... maybe she'll tell you why she's ignoring you... Now, don't think of that... You're not stupid.. everyone wants to have friends.... why can't you? everyone deserves a friend... so don't feel bad...
I hope I've helped...
I really hope I have.
Wish you always the best luck.
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How can I lose weight (at least 8pounds) in 3 weeks! I've gained almost 10 pounds over the summer(here in our country) and school's gonna start in 3 weeks already. I don't wanna show up in school looking so-not-like-me the last time they saw me. Please give me tips on how to lose weight fast!
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Tips from my brilliant fitnesse instructor (but she's kind of slow....) Okay, here we go:
Eat vegetable soup for your every meal. (It's like tomato, carrot, any other veggie, mix them together in deep boiling water, then you can add pepper and salt) It's the fastest way.
Don't eat sweet stuffs.
Do sit ups and push ups every morning and night.
(This is one fastest way too. Usually, 31 sit ups will do about 1.5 pound at once, it's really fast)
Try to run 5-7 miles per day.
Don't eat cakes, drink sweets, or even snacks.
Don't make yourself stressful or listen to any news. Bad news and frustation can bring your eating habit increased.
Hope I've helped with this. I really hope I have.
Wish you the very best luck.
PS: Trust me, these are all I do everyday, and I'm okay.
Good luck!! ^_^
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Is it too late for me to change my mind about the University I want to go to? I want to start in the Fall.
Right now, I'm supposed to go to one school but I'm starting to lean towards another. I was accepted to both but is it too late to change my mind? (link)
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Of course not! It's not too late. I've always been hanging around colleges all my life (since my parents are always there) And it's not too late at all. Lots of people change their decision at the last minute. Well, yes, they do.
Hope I've helped. Good luck!
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Okay so there is this girl at my high school and i guess she started likin' the guy i happen to talk to and kinda sorta love. Well she is going around saying they 'talk' .. but here is the problem i asked him what was goin on with them. he says 'wtf' Don't worry about that. i don't know what do .. i just want to know how to ask him about her without him being mad. and if i should move on?
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It seems to me that he knows about your feelings toward him. He says,"Don't worry about that." Meaning that you don't have to think about it too much, because he's not interested in her. So, don't be sad or mad, let's all be glad (wow, that rhymes. ^_^) Well, everything will be alright... Just breath and relax...
He obviously likes you and not that girl, so it's okay. That girl is just trying to get his attention, which is not working very well... Yet you do have his attention. So just like what he said, Do not worry.
I think since he knows your feelings, he will not want you to know about what that girl has been telling him or asking him about, he doesn't want you to think about it too much, but actually, by not telling you, you're worried.
It's okay... everything will be alright..
I hope I've helped. Wish you the very best luck!
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Is AP environmental science difficult? [I'm taking this class in high school, and I'm asking about the material, not the AP exam] (link)
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It is difficult. Some people hate it... Wow, you're taking it. Go You!!
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ok well there's like this guy. and i liked him ever since we met like bcz at first he liked this one girl but then he liked me and like we've been in lOVE for 2 years? i dont rle know but ok he started moving on after i broke up with him. and i NEVER got over him and i have been trying so harrd but i dont know what to do bcz some of my other friends like him too. and i dont wanna tell people i like him bcz im trying to get over him. so any advice?
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Oh sweetie... it's okay... You'll get over him someday... Just wait, you can't get over someone only in few days when you've loved him for over two years... It really is okay. Just do what your heart tells you to. I've been through your situation too... well, at least your boyfriend didn't go out with other girl in front of your eyes and told you to get lost, or back to someone who cared about you... it was painful...
But now I can smile and be happy, even though I still can never get over it... I mean, I never get over it, it's just hard.
When I was trying to get over him, it took me months, and I couldn't stop crying. But well, someone who cared about me came and told me that he would stay by my side no matter what.
Well, all you need is a little time. And that time will come to you by itself. Don't think about it too much if it will hurt you... just be strong and invicible. If he can move on, why can't you. Don't always expect too much from something, because they can be nothing. But I'm sure you'll stay strong. I can tell because you keep trying no matter what. It takes a very strong and brave heart to do that... (sadly, I don't have that...) So, it's okay, everything will be alright... I know it will.
Hope I've helped. I really hope I have.
Wish you the very best luck. Good luck.
Lots of love
-Vin
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well usually i get my period for about 4-5 day. and last month i only got it for 2 days and this month i also got it for only 2 days. is that bad? i mean i dont mind cause i hate getting my period but im just a little worried! and i never had sex in my life before so it has nothing to do with a thing like that! but what is it?? do i have to worrie? thx
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Do you do sports? Sometimes, when you do too much sports, it will cut your period time.. Like me, I sometimes only have it for 2 days too (and I usually work out or run) So, it's normal. Totally. I mean, they can never stay in constant time... they will come and go.
Don't worry... there's nothing to worry about...
I hope I've helped. I really hope I have.
Wish you always the best luck.
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Ok, so there is this guy that I really like and he knows that I like him and about 5 or 6 months ago I asked him out and he said that he would think about it and he never gave me an answer. Recently he told his friends that i was ugly and he would never go out with me. So now I want to get over him. How can I do that? (link)
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Oooow...... Honey, it's okay... Don't be sad...
He has no respect for anyone!! How could he?!
It's okay... everything will be alright...
Do something fun, think of good things
Put your mind on something that will push him aside... Don't worry, you'll find another guy sooner or later...
Anyway, if you want revenge, just smile to him when you meet him and tell him that you have a crush on someone else... I wonder what he will do... hm... *evil smirk* (just kidding, I'm no evil at all)
Well, just do what you think you should.
Hope you'll feel better... I hope I've helped.
Wish you the very best luck.
Lots of love,
Vin
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my boyfriend(19) and I(18) have been together over 2 months and he suggested sleeping together this weekend. We're both virgins but we discussed contraception etc and i do feel ready for it but my university entrance exams are in two weeks and are the most important exams i will ever do. I think ill be too stressed to be able to enjoy it and id like to wait til after the exams. (a month or so) he says he doesnt mind and ive said id like to do other stuff with him but i still feel as if an innocence is gone from our relationship and its made me very depressed.I feel like the issue is hanging in the air and that sex is all that matters.How can I clear the air?please help,i cant study properly for exams! (link)
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Breath... relax... just calm down, everything will be alright... Well, since you can't get your mind out of it, then talk to him first. Just make it clear... It's just your feelings, it's okay... don't think about it too much... ^_^ Just study and be happy... (though I don't know how both can go together...)
You just feel gulty because you turn him down, but it's okay... Don't be stressed while you have to study...
I hope I've helped. I really hope I have.
Hope you'll feel better...
Wish you the best luck
Everything will be alright...
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ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!! (link)
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It's okay... don't be scared... just go on and ask him out... you actually are scared to do that because you broke up with him, and you're afraid that something might happen... But don't think of those stuffs yet... Just walk on and do what you must do.
Everyone always feels guilty after breaking up with their mates... so it's okay, everything will be alright. Don't think of what you've done as the biggest mistake in your life, it will make you feel even sadder and more guilty.
He definitely is waiting for you. You're not really sure about this relationship, but just give it a try. ^_^ take him back.
I hope I've helped you... I really hope I have...
Wish you the best luck! Be strong, be invicible!!
*Go you!!!* Just go and do what you must.
Lots of love.
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Do you think it's necessary to know your partners past sexual experience? Would you want to know? Would it bother you? I learned from personal exp. never to ask, yet I found out how much experience my girlfriend has had accidently and when I confronted her about it she didn't deny it. Something changed with me when she admitted it. I feel really insecure about it now. I hate finding out. What would you do?? (link)
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Ask politely... (very... polite...play safe...) Well, if they do know better than anyone else, then talk to them and ask them. Sometimes, parents will appreciate us when we want them to help us in something... ^_^ So, just ask for help, which they will accept gladly, and then ask for it. If they're kinda shocked at the very first time, just smile and say, "Everyone needs to know what's good and what's bad..." Learning experience is not always nice and safe, sometimes it will hurt and others... *Anyway, if you still don't know, you can go to websites or ask me*
And if you hate finding out, then are you sure you're ready to find out?? I mean, if you're not, then don't try to be... It's okay to be scared...
I hope I've helped. I really hope I have.
Wish you and your girlfriend the best luck.
PS: Everything will be alright... relax...
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is there any sites were you could watch anime shows in english? (anime like fruits basket) (link)
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You like Fruits Basket?! Me too!! Who do you want to be with Tohru? Yuki or Kyo? Just wondering...
Well, there are websites to download manga, not the shows.. But you can buy the DVDs online anyway... (I'm sorry, I know it's not helping)
But if you like some video that some creative people made, just go to Quizilla, they have zillions!! *There are of course for Naruto, Inuyasha, etc*
I hope I've helped even though just a little...
Wish you the best luck. Hope you'll find what you need!! ^_^
-Lots of love,
Vin
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im not just here for the rating. Wehn you ask a question and you give the honest answer and you answer the question they asked. Why do they rate you a one.? Is there anything to do about them rating you a one when you deserved something like a four or a five? (link)
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I know that feeling... some people are too depressed to give the advisor a four or five... >.< It's so sad... really... I'm sorry honey... I really wish that everyone would rate four or five to whatever answer others gave them...
At least you've tried your best... *You know, they usually do that because other people give them one... so they just want others to feel their pain... but sometimes, it's just unfair.. especially to some good answers...*
Hope you'll feel better... Don't think about it much... You'll make your rate up again anyway... Just wait, when you've done something nice and people don't appreciate it, you'll get the reward someday...
Wish you the very best luck! ^_^
PS: You can delete it if you want to...
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ok, so theres a guy and i really really really really like him, we've already dated once and i wanna get back together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me to, he also said he sorta likes this other girl and she really likes him also. Its really hard because shes really cool and shes my friend
i dont want to make her mad at me or sad or w/e if i DO go out with him again, but i also really like him so i dont know if it matters whether she hates me at this point or not, besides i can't see her being like that. Some people say that hes going to ask me out again but he reluctant because im too shy. I think thats why he dumped me before, i dont want to blow it and i really really like the guy(obviously lol)
i know this is a weird question but does anyone have advice about my shyness, i'm not shy around my friends and he's one of them but ever since i found out he likes me, i get all nervous around him. Maybe its because i think hes judging me??? Or comparing me to the other girl???
PLEASE HELP OUT!!!!
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It's okay.... just breath and relax...
You know what, I think your shyness is the thing that draws him even closer to you... I mean, even though you're shy, he still likes you. Deep inside, he must likes your shyness...
He's not judging you! It's okay! Don't think of those stuffs... they're just going to make you even more nervous than ever! >.< Try to be more confident in relationship... Just think that no one is watching and you are free on your own... Just be yourself when you're with him... just be what you want to be...It will all be alright! ^_^ Just wait, be patient, he will ask you out sooner or later...
I hope I've helped... Wish you always the best luck! ^_^
PS: I don't think this is a weird question... I'm glad that you posted this question... nice to know you anyway. ^_^
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