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ok, so theres a guy and i really really really really like him, we've already dated once and i wanna get back together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me to, he also said he sorta likes this other girl and she really likes him also. Its really hard because shes really cool and shes my friend
i dont want to make her mad at me or sad or w/e if i DO go out with him again, but i also really like him so i dont know if it matters whether she hates me at this point or not, besides i can't see her being like that. Some people say that hes going to ask me out again but he reluctant because im too shy. I think thats why he dumped me before, i dont want to blow it and i really really like the guy(obviously lol)
i know this is a weird question but does anyone have advice about my shyness, i'm not shy around my friends and he's one of them but ever since i found out he likes me, i get all nervous around him. Maybe its because i think hes judging me??? Or comparing me to the other girl???
Devina answered Thursday May 18 2006, 9:53 pm: It's okay.... just breath and relax...
You know what, I think your shyness is the thing that draws him even closer to you... I mean, even though you're shy, he still likes you. Deep inside, he must likes your shyness...
He's not judging you! It's okay! Don't think of those stuffs... they're just going to make you even more nervous than ever! >.< Try to be more confident in relationship... Just think that no one is watching and you are free on your own... Just be yourself when you're with him... just be what you want to be...It will all be alright! ^_^ Just wait, be patient, he will ask you out sooner or later...
I hope I've helped... Wish you always the best luck! ^_^
PS: I don't think this is a weird question... I'm glad that you posted this question... nice to know you anyway. ^_^ [ Devina's advice column | Ask Devina A Question ]
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