ok well there's like this guy. and i liked him ever since we met like bcz at first he liked this one girl but then he liked me and like we've been in lOVE for 2 years? i dont rle know but ok he started moving on after i broke up with him. and i NEVER got over him and i have been trying so harrd but i dont know what to do bcz some of my other friends like him too. and i dont wanna tell people i like him bcz im trying to get over him. so any advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Devina answered Saturday May 20 2006, 8:48 am: Oh sweetie... it's okay... You'll get over him someday... Just wait, you can't get over someone only in few days when you've loved him for over two years... It really is okay. Just do what your heart tells you to. I've been through your situation too... well, at least your boyfriend didn't go out with other girl in front of your eyes and told you to get lost, or back to someone who cared about you... it was painful...
But now I can smile and be happy, even though I still can never get over it... I mean, I never get over it, it's just hard.
When I was trying to get over him, it took me months, and I couldn't stop crying. But well, someone who cared about me came and told me that he would stay by my side no matter what.
Well, all you need is a little time. And that time will come to you by itself. Don't think about it too much if it will hurt you... just be strong and invicible. If he can move on, why can't you. Don't always expect too much from something, because they can be nothing. But I'm sure you'll stay strong. I can tell because you keep trying no matter what. It takes a very strong and brave heart to do that... (sadly, I don't have that...) So, it's okay, everything will be alright... I know it will.
Hope I've helped. I really hope I have.
Wish you the very best luck. Good luck.
JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Saturday May 20 2006, 8:18 am: If oyu cant get over him maybe you need to try to win him back because im 100% sure thats he's not totally over you either boys just know how to hide it better than gurls. so maybe you and him should sit down and have a long serious honest talk
XOUNFABULOUSFERRRLiiFE answered Friday May 19 2006, 9:38 pm: if they start talking about him when your around go do something else or cahnge the subject. its really hard to get over people. i would know but eventually you do. you move on. you make new friends and yu have new boyfriends. i know you dont want other people to like him but chances are he doesnt like them. he probably still likes you. sorry that i really couldnt help. but i odnt know what to do other than tell you that you will eventually get over him.
i know your strong. dont break down now. =) [ XOUNFABULOUSFERRRLiiFE's advice column | Ask XOUNFABULOUSFERRRLiiFE A Question ]
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