i know not another stupid boyfroend prob. but sorry it is. well you see my boyfriend is going to see his dad and he is leaving june 2. and i am really upset about that he came over today and asked if i we should take a break while he's gone. i told him he saying that so he can get laid while he's gone without feeling gulit.but thank god as soon as i said that my friend interupted so advice plez what should i do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ND143 answered Monday May 29 2006, 12:04 am: sure he could have asked for a break so he could fool around guilt free but definitly could have said it as to take some stress off of both of you while he's gone. it could be a nice break for both of you. instead of worrying about what hes doing, just realize that even if he IS fooling around, to him, you could be back home doing the exact same thing. just talk to him, and STAY CALM. try to get the best perspective on his point of view and when he comes back, you could take off right where you left off. taking a break can be a very healthy thing for a realtionhip.
Devina answered Saturday May 27 2006, 8:21 am: Well, sometimes, when you love someone, you need to let him go. I think maybe he really needs to have his own time with his dad... I mean, they've been away for long... He just doesn't want to feel sad about leaving you and it will make him think about you even more... He will surely miss you, but he doesn't really want you to wait on him either...
^_^ You really don't want him to leave you.. I can see that... but just for once, if you think that will make him happy, why not give it a try? He doesn't want to leave you either...
I hope I've helped... I really hope I have
Don't worry, everything will be alright.
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