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so confused .
Okay, well. The boyfriend I have now, he picked me (as in, he asked me out) and well the first times a said no and maybe but then after a while a said yes.
I started liking him. But after a while, I realized he's not perfect. And sometimes I'm feeling great about being with him, and sometimes i'm not. I'm having my doubts.
And I think I want someone else, but i don't know. Cause what if there really isn't anyone better? and he doesn't get back with me. helpp?
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You should never stay with someone just because right at this moment you aren't quite sure if there is anyone else good enough. There is always going to be someone else sooner or later. Staying with someone that you don't really like enough to stay with is not fair for you or him.
I'm assuming your young, your going to have many different experiences like this. But, if you stay with someone that you don't really like, it will only prolong your life. Don't end up like some of those people who stay with someone they don't like for the next ten years only to miss out on possibly finding the person that would have been perfect for them.
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Well, at least you have feelings for him...
You are struggling whether you really like him or not... and whether he is the right guy or not...
Now, one thing you have to check first... Can you see yourself with him together? What do you see?
There is a reason that you don't even know about... something that is holding you back slowly... Just follow what you think is right..
No one is perfect... including yourself... that's why you're doubting your relationship with him...
Don't think about it too much... Relax, and take a deep breath...
I hope I've helped... I really hope I have
Wish you always the best luck
Hope you're gonna find out soon! I know you will
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Oh I know EXACTLY how you feel! Because that just happened to me very recently...
Well I can't decide for you but i can help you decide what works for you... before you do anything think about this...
There's always gonna be someone no matter what(as in, unless you know for SURE you found a right guy, there's gonna be a new guy)
And if you have doubts, even though they are temporary, you probably don't really like him that much. I mean I kept telling myself, he's a good guy, not perfect but he's good, and i like him. But one day i really thought about it...and Finally realized that I was only kidding myself and convincing myself that I like him so I won't hurt his feelings when I break up with him...
So think a lot about how you feel towards him.
1. Do you see yourself with him for next 6 months???
2. If you see a cute guy, do you see yourself comparing your current bf with a new found cute guy???
If you said No to question 1, and yes to question 2, then you probably are better off ending it, because as you drag on longer, it will be harder.
It is very normal to feel that way, because from what I've read, it might just mean that your are not ready for commitment of being in a relationship...when I first read that, I didnt really believe it, but now I spend time as single, I do think that's right...
So if you need anymore help message me anytime
and HOpe i helped you
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There are many other boys out there, hun. if you feel that he isn't the type for you, move one. Don't feel like he's the end all beat all because he' not.
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