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wuts wrong w/ me!?
13/f
ok i've never had a bf ever in my life. im kind of over weight and i dont think im very ugly but im prolly not really pretty eaither. i do have some guy friends but not real boy friends. i really want a bf cuz i always see my friends with there bfs kissing and holding hands and hugging etc. i've never been kissed either so i feel so left out cuz all my friends have please give me some good advice and please help me!!
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you are 13...your friend's relationships arent going to last that long, seriously. just stay friends with the guy friends you have b/c they are a lot more than "holding hands and kissing". im 14 and i have had a bf that ended in sadness and ive never been kissed so really, there is nothing to worry about! being single is really not that bad. <3
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Nothing is wrong with you. All these kids your age getting boyfriends so young is worthless. It's either fake love or it will go to far. It's OK to not have a boyfrind. Don't change yourself. If you want to lose weight just try jogging. Everyone finds love at their own pace. Don't think you're slow most kids these days are just too fast. Maybe you could have a friend help get you a date. I'm not saying boyfriend. Wait to call the right one your boyfriend. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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Aww hun..dont worry about it!! i mean some girls dont get their first kiss until they are 16! Im sure you are gorgeous..and you just have to be confident in yourself..i mean guys think confidence is super sexy..and if you walk around with your head held high..smiling..and just being your beautiful self..it will catch a guys attention!
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Dakota
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♥ hey. Well like cookierat123 said..u have to love yourself and have confidence! So if you want to loose weight then Job, go on a diet, do excercies etc. Or you could take a dance class to get in fit. Try some makup experiment with your hair and clothes. If you make yourself look cute then you will have more confidence which will make you more attractive. I promiss a guy will come around. Or ask one of your friends boyfriends to hook you up with one of friends! people should love you for who you are. & remember do NOT change yourself for other people. Be yourself and i promiss a guy will come around just be patient and odnt think about wha u wish u had but be happy with what you have! good luck babe! if you eveer need to IM you can. my screename is the same as my username thing. xoxo ♥ love, Lauren
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alrighty, so you want a bf? well, i think before you let someone love you you have to learn to love yourself. get active if you think your fat. play sports, go jogging, or ride your bike. and if you already feel confortable then let your inner beauty shine. once you get to know that great side of you then start flirting. just go with the flow, pretty soon that someone will come to you.
hope it helps
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i didn't have my first girlfriend til i was 17, my first kiss until then either. it's not a bad thing, it's just we all go into relationships at our own rate and speed. and if your rate may be slower then so be it. don't focus so much on it. when it happens it happens.
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You could look at it like this. They no longer have anything to look forward to and you do! 13 is still pretty young. The boys are immature and most probably don't take the girls on dates anywhere. They are just at school type boyfriends. I know you want one really bad, but just hang in there. They will be asking you out soon. Keep making friends with them because the ones that are really good friends will make the best boyfriends :)
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there is nothing wrong with you! your only 13..you have plenty of guys to come in your love life! many people dont have a first bf or gf until they are 15,16,and17 years old! i know how it feels because its been 2 years for me (im 16) since i had my last real bf..you just have to be yourself..meet new people..and the right guy will come along..dont just settle for anyone..wait for the guy who makes your heart melt each time you see him..you desserve the best..so wait for the guy who will sweep you off your feet! :)
an 18 year old female asked a question about her lovelife and how she wants a bf..and what i told her applys to you also..here is the question and my answer if you would like to see
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stay yourself..live it up ;)
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a guy will come along for you. just wait. if theres someone you really want to be with then flirt with them alot and let them know you want them. good luck!
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maybe you do want a boyfriend but you shoulnt go and get a boyfriend just to have one a first kiss is supposed to be a special thing on day the right guy will come to you or if you already have a crush than you should try to talk to him well hope i helped
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