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confused thong wearer
well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....
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dont stop wearing them, its your personal choice what to wear. its not like people are gonna see them when you wear them. just tell her that your old enough and mature enough to wear them, because it shouldnt be a big deal. just later tell her that it was your thong. i dont think she would care if you were wearing them still, because youve been wearing them for a year. and plus you need to wear thongs if your wearing tight and white clothes, or sometimes things printed. hopefull your talk will work out.
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LOL! Aww... thongs arent much of a big deal.. i told my mom and shes like...ummm... i guess you can wear them... for some pants you kinda have to... but dont have your pants low... bc then you would look like a skank and guys would think you look like a skank..lol
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!LIZ!
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if she brings it up again just tell her that you wear them. i don't think she should be mad or anything because thongs are just underwear. its nothing bad. but if she doesn't bring it up again then don't tell her if you don't want to. ~Kerri~
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Just tell her, you already said that she didn`t care. She`s your mother, and you can tell her anything. And anwyway, wearing a thong isn`t that big of a deal.
♥ Taylor
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I'm sorry but i think the best thing to do is to tell the truth, Otherwise you'll have this on chest for a couple of months.
I know its scary to tell the truth but parents lose trust in you if you lie to them.
Good luck!
I hope i helped :)
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Just tell her.. gosh its freakin underwear.. why swould she freak out about you wearing a certain kind of underwear.. ♥ Dez
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you should just tell her the truth!! she might not care as much as u think!! when i started wearin them, i didnt want my mom to no either b/c i thought she would be mad n its alil uncomfortible!! but when she found out, she ask me n i said yea!! n she didnt really care!! hope i helped!
SAMANTHA
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NO PANTIE LINES! keep wearin them! this actually happened to me too! what i did is like a few weeks after she found the thong (i kept wearin them of coarse) i sat down with her and asked if i could start wearing thongs because i was "mature" enough (hah..yea right!! lol) but then she said.."i guess" and its that easy! keep in mind..do you really want those hideous pantie lines?! haha hope i helped!
~Candace
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i think you should tell her it's not that bad as what i told my mom lots of love
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Why do you have to tell your mom what kind of underwear your wearing? If she didn't seem to care last night then leave it at that.
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i think you should just tell her so you can keep wearing them and most importantly, washing them! if you said it was a friends everytime she found one she would eventually find out and be pretty mad so next time it comes up, "yeah thats mine" <3
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I think you should just tell her. She wont be upset about it if she was ok with it.
luv roxie
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i know what you mean i have the same problem. so next time she says anything about it just tell her if she didnt seem to mind im sure it will be fine.
luv Brittany
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i think you should tell her that it was yours. she cant stop you from wearing them, if you feel comfortable in them then wear them.
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i think you should just tell her the truth..because shes probably going to find another one of them, you cant hide them forever..believe me..i tried..but my mom does the laundy..lol but i mean if she didnt seem like she cared..then she prolly wouldnt care if you had some!
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Dakota
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why are you so scared to tell her? its nothing to be ashamed of and thousands of girls wear them. just sit her down and say "Mom i lied to you the other day, that thong you found was mine and iv been wearing them for about a year now." not only will your mom appreciate your honesty but she'll be happy that you could open up to her
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i think u should tell your mom. she seems like its not that big of a deal neway. she most likely wear them too, which is pretty gross for any mom but thats not the point. maybe she'll start buying you some once you tell her =-P you never know! just talk to your mom ...
XO0X -- KELSEY
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if she brings it up again, just tell her the truth. if she didn't really care before, then what's the problem? would you rather hide things from her or have an open relationship? it's not a big deal if she doesn't ask and you don't tell, but if she asks, i wouldn't lie.
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