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ok my friend resently made out for the first time and like told meh the things i needed to do it and made me really confident to make out for the first time and now my best friend (hes a guy and im a gurl) mite come ova and hes the type who would make out wit me if i wanted to. Im going into the 8th grade and i really wanna go in being able to say i finally did it. I know thats no reason but thats y im asking u wat i sould do. I mean i had a crush on him for ova a year until now im not sure if i like him like that. So what should i do. I really wanna just get it ova with cuz so many people make a big deal about whether you have or not
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It doesn't sound to me like you are really ready. Are you ready for the first guy you give it to to brag? Are you ready for the first guy you do it with to tell everyone that you sleep with anyone? Are you ready to become a parent? If you were really ready, you would choose the time and the place with the person in mind, as well. Be prepared, also, that for girls, sex is different. Guys can walk away without getting emotionally involved ALOT easier than a girl can (not that girls can't walk away, too, it's just harder for some).All this set aside, who's business is it, anyway? Are you doing it just to be able to say you did it? If so, you may be very disappointed with yourself, and may feel let down.
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I'm 14. I havent kissed a guy (cheek doesnt count in my book). It's NOT A BIG DEAL.
If people make fun of you just say you respect yourself and dont want meaningless kissing or whatever. They arent your friends if they dont respect you for not making out.
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ok, first u should never try to be someone your are not.and if u dont feel comfortble then dont try to do anything.dont go over the limit.dont think about what your friends did. just b urself.dont follow be a leader.i hope this help u out.Good luck!
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if your only going into the 8th grade you shouldnt rush into anything you still have your whole life ahead of you. take it from someone who knows b/c ive been there done that. and i know you being a teenager now means there's alot more peer pressure out there and it's hard trying to deal with other teens pressuring you into doing something just because its the "cool" thing to do. nothing is cool unless its what you really want so if making out with a boy is what u really want than do it dont do it just bc everyone else is doing it. take jessica simpson (the singer) for example she stayed a virgin till she was married and she didnt care what anybody else thought about her. PRINCESSKISSES1 hope my adivce helps
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well, if it feels right than definetly do it. but if it doesnt my only suggestion is to wait for someone who you want to have that with. so you can remember doing it because you had feelings for this person, and not because you were trying to avoid people making a big deal over it.
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If you want to make out with him do it. He doesnt seem like the type who would take advantage. And chances are you still have feelings for him, your just getting all nervice and shying away. But this isnt unusual, a lot of people feel this way. Good luck! XoXo
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You need to be honest with yourself about why you want to do this - so you can impress other people, or because you genuinely want to?
I can guarantee that it won't be as special or exciting as it would be if you waited until you KNEW you were ready. That means being with someone you care about and respect, and who returns those feelings as well.
If you are open with your friend and explain that you want to wait for a memorable moment, without dissing her choice to already have made out with someone, then I'm sure she'll understand.
Any sort of sexual activity needs to be based on an individual's knowledge, experiences, and emotions. If you are jumping into things for other people, and not yourself, then you might find yourself making bad decisions you'll regret later.
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