There is this guy i like in my Social Studies class. Everyone says he is really nice. I would go up and talk to him, but he is alwayse with his guy friends. They kinda intimidate me. So should I ask around about him (see if he is single, or even interested in me) or should i wait to see if he will come up to me?
lilmsattitude answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:50 am: Asking around never hurt, especially if his friends don't leave his side. If he's single, maybe drop a letter in his locker (if it has slats in it, and if he'll find it in there) or get to class a little early and leave it on his desk? [ lilmsattitude's advice column | Ask lilmsattitude A Question ]
Maura answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:31 am: Ask around. Have some friends dig up the dirt. You can always approach him with some of your friends.
If hes good at social studies and you need some help remembering facts... STUDY DATE. :) It might be more comfortable for you both (at least at first) to have some other kids from class there. [ Maura's advice column | Ask Maura A Question ]
dotdotdot32 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 9:47 pm: make eye contact and smile. have you been properly introduced? if not, stick your hand out and say "hi i'm..." and ask him a question about social studies, as if your having trouble with it. [ dotdotdot32's advice column | Ask dotdotdot32 A Question ]
Mosie90 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 8:36 pm: I would hint around or get my friends to see if he likes you. Get noticed by him too. Smile at him or else bump into him and be like I"m sorry with a big smile. But make sure your noticed! GOOD LUCK! :) **Mosie** [ Mosie90's advice column | Ask Mosie90 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 6:22 pm: i think you should go up and talk to him.. what are his friends gonna say!? lol good luck!
hottamale1812 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 6:15 pm: hey! i would talk to him its soo much easier dont ask him out.. but like u kno be a lil flirty not 2 much, but if u dont talk to him he mite not talk to u just cuz u talk to him doesnt me he knos u like him! <3 [ hottamale1812's advice column | Ask hottamale1812 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 6:11 pm: Well never be afraid to be the one making the first move. Even if he is with his friends just say hi. Or just start talking to him about whatevers on your mind. If hes as nice as people say he is,and hes good boyfriend material he'll go right with the flow. You need to be friends with him before you can think about relationships and who likes who. So try and take it slow, be friends with him. You might not want to ask people if hes single because if you dont want them to know you like him... that may give them the hint. Or if your ok with people knowing it wouldnt hurt to go and ask. Its all up to you and its in your hands. So just be nice and appear really sweet... and be sweet. He'll have no problem talking to you. Good luck! Hope it all goes well. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
xlx_MilLy_xlx answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 6:10 pm: Hey why not go for it.. I mean wat is there to lose? Lol, just go up to him pull him side and try to talk wit him or something. Or u could jus grab him and hug him JK. Lol, well I hope that helps. [ xlx_MilLy_xlx's advice column | Ask xlx_MilLy_xlx A Question ]
XoXMeLiSsA13XoX answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 5:50 pm: I think you should forget both and go up to him! be like, can i talk to you for a minute? are you single! can we hang out sometime! just go for it girl! if you need anything else let me kno! [ XoXMeLiSsA13XoX's advice column | Ask XoXMeLiSsA13XoX A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 5:46 pm: YouR best bet is to go up to HIM... I know it's difficult if he's always with his fRiends [and it would be foR me as well]. So if you CAN'T catch him alone, you could tRy making eye contact with him as much as possible. Don't sit theRe and staRe entiRe time -- haha, he may think you'Re a "stalkeR", but just look at him enough to get youR attention. OR if you happen to see him in the hallway, hang out about 10 feet away with some of youR fRiends, but stand a little distant fRom them so that you aRe pResentable; peRhaps he WILL come up to you!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
cHaDbAbYgUrL answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 5:44 pm: well well well!! i bet the guy thinks that bout you all the time! he probly wants to come talk to you but yur always with yur girl friends! he is bout as nervous as you are and he will most likely come to you! so u have to get out the and dont be scared by his friends! just ask him if you can talk to him for a few minutes by himself!juss be confident with yurself and dont let his guy friends scare you off cause u could be goin to the movies with your new boyfriend and sum of his friends! goodluck gurl and let me know how it goes!
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