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Shy
how can I stop being so SHY!?! Guys only go out for me because of my looks and not my personality because I sorta freeze up around people I don't know well or aren't friends with.
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Try to be more outgoing, and get to know guys before you go out with them. Then you'll know they're going out with you for the right reasons.
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u just have to have more confidence in yourself. i used to be shy too but then i started hangin out with ppl that are more social than me.. now im like them and not afraid to talk to anyone! good luck <3
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Try double dating with one of your friends for the first date or two, but don't pay more attention to your friends than your date. You will learn to relax with your guy, he will see that you can be fun, and by the next date, you and your guy will have a basis on which to go from, like you can talk about the movie you saw last week, or whatever, but don't keep your conversation on how it was fun with your friends, or he'll think you aren't too interested in him.
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That's just how you are. If you really want to change... then you can. I used to an extremely introverted and shy little girl... even my own mother thought something was wrong with me. But I grew out of it. Either you're gonna hit some certain growth spurt and get out of it; or that's just how you're going to be. Just open up more to people, babe. :]
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Hey!!! Just try to be more confident and make small talk. Maybe you and the person you're talking to will have something in common!!! I hope I helped!!! <3Kali<3
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aw well try hanging around with people more often and don't be afraid to speak up! =) i'm a talker..but i use to be shy..so all ya gotta do is go out..meet new people..talk to them more often and just be yourself! and people should love you for you! good luck and i'm here if ya wanna talk! =)
<3*Chelsea
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hey gurly! thats the same w/ me! i just go up to them, and introduce myself to people if i dont know them and if i do know them i just start up a convo even tho im like scared to death on what they are going to say. Just be yourself like the person you are w/ your best friends! hope i helped a little! *Marielle*
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