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what should i do?
This weekend me and the gurls went to the movies. There was this guy there that i think is really cute. I dont plan on hooking up with him because i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. Well, at the movies this guy just happened to be sitting next to me. My friends got up to go to the bathroom and i didnt which meant me and the guy we're sitting there all alone. I turned over and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. I was kinda shocked he would do that since he knew how much i really liked my bf. Then, the night went on and i wasnt even thinking about the whole kissing thing becuz after all he did kiss me i didnt kiss him... well after the movie ended i walked out of the theater and then i had to go back cuz i realized i 4got something. the guy was still there. i got my stuff then he put his arms around me and hugged me and kissed me on the cheek again. This time without even thinking i kissed him on the cheek back.. I wasnt even thinking about my boyfriend!! i am such a bad person!! i know most of u dont think of kissing some1 on the cheek a big deal but to me it is cuz i kno if my guy was kissing some gurl on the cheek i would be mad it him.. now i dont know what to do! I want to tell him but i know its going to hurt him and hes been hurt alot b4 this. But still think he should know. I have this guilt on my shoulders. If been avioding him since the whole incident... Should i tell him or not?
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u should be honest with him u cant keep it a secret because if he finds it out from someone else then he will be even more mad at u for not being honest!
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Is this "other man" someone he knows, or will someone other than you tell him if you don't? If not, just let it go and don't do it again. Maybe write him a letter telling him everything, but don't mail it or send it to him, just rip it up and burn it. On the other hand, if he will find out from other people, beat them to the punch, be honest, and reassure him before and after you tell him that you love him and only him.
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just tell ur bf that this guy tried to get with u and let ur bf get in the kids face cuz u did nuthin wrong, it was just a reaction, a kiss on the cheek doesnt mean nething
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I think you should definately tell him. Just say he kissed me first and he put his arms around me. You still love him but accedently, you kissed the other guy on he cheek. What you did was a complete mistake and you still love him. Say he's the only one for you. Rate me please! Hope I helped!
xoxo, Maris
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hey hun! yea..i know exactly how you feel! well the best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend and just tell him that you didn't go farther then a kiss on the cheek and that he kissed you..and if he realli is a good boyfriend..then he will understand! =) and if not..then he's not worth your time! a relationship should be based on trust! well good luck and i'm here for you if you need to talk too!
<3*Chelsea<3*
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