ok i have a friend who lives across the country. well he keeps tellin me he likes me and today hes like, wut if i called my g/f up and broke up with her and asked u out? well long distance relationships dont do anything for me. anyways he keeps askin me out(which is really dumb) and stuff like that. then he was saying i love u and when he was getting off he said i love you like a sis. i dont get it! he wants to go out with me but loves me like a sister! i dont really care about relationships, im only 13 and sos he but i mean come on. wut should i say to him or do to just make him realize wut hes saying. we have been friends ever since we were born and i dont want to ever lose him as a friend and i do like him he is just driving me insane. will someone pls help?
AngelaMarie824 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:17 pm: Tell him exacty what u said here. That long distance relationships just dont work for u and you'd rather just be friends. I hope he understand! Good luck
bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:13 pm: tell him all of that stuff! that long distance relationships dont do anything, you dont want to loose him as a friend, and you dont htink it would work out between you two, and that your only 13 so it would be too hard right now to try and deal with a long distance relationship [ bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe's advice column | Ask bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe A Question ]
oxteresaxo14 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 9:43 pm: heyy sweetie!!! just tell him what you said here...relationships are suposed to start before the distance!!! and what is a relationship if all you can do is talk on the phone after all your only 13 you dont need that now and when he said love u like a sis..it was because u didnt go 4 his idea of gonig out with him in the first place....my advice..dont go out with him.it wont be like haveing a boyfriend anyway!!!! good luck need more liotta14 <---IM it xox teresa [ oxteresaxo14's advice column | Ask oxteresaxo14 A Question ]
manda44 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 9:37 pm: say to him what u told us here... that long distance relationships do nothing for you and that u'd rather just be friends... hopefully he unbderstands.. u cant lead him on to think u really want to be with him.. u have to let him know that ur 13! and that ur not ready to be that serious with a guy as to say having a long term relationship.. say u jus want to stay friends and not loose what u guys have as friends and keep it as that.
Hope it helped.
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Lena answered Sunday August 15 2004, 9:34 pm: tell him how you feel, just that you cant do a long distance relationship right now [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Sunday August 15 2004, 9:26 pm: Just bRing those points up to him - tell him to stop and think befoRe he opens his mouth, and while he's at it.. claRify what he's ALREADY said!! And I wouldn't go out with this guy.. he lives acRoss the countRy, I mean.. come on.. it's difficult to make long distance Relationships woRk foR anyone, let alone two 13 yeaR olds. And when you look at it this way... what if YOU weRe his CURRENT giRlfRiend.. and he's going aRound telling otheR giRls that he'll bReak up with you no pRoblem foR some otheR giRl. He's not woRth a SINLGE SECOND of youR time!!! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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